Dear Querist
My opinion on your queries are as under:
a) Is there any way that my family can force the court to close these two cases (498a & DVact) since my wife is already got divorce and there is no any relations between me and my wife since she already got divorce.
Opinion: no there is no legal way to closed those cases, you have to fight the cases on merit.
b) Since she got contested Divorce (on grounds that husband left wife deserted and she claimed false dowry case), so Can I challenge in upper court against this contested divorce even she got divorce decree? So that she will close the 498a & DVAct cases against me and my family? Otherwise she is free bird and me and my family got stuck in court cases.
Opinion: yes, you can file an application for set aside the exparty divorce order within 90 days from the date of knowledge.
c) My wife had filed alimony case against me but the court dismissed her appeal since I was not in India , is there any chances she can appeal in higher court once I go to India back even she got divorce .
Opinion: It may be possible. but there is a specific time for filing appeal before appellate court.
d) Also my wife is not attending the court cases on time to time even my family members are present in court every month, can I take up this issue and ask court to take any action against her.
Opinion: your parents may file an application for dismissal of complaint due to non appearance of the complainant and the court has power to dismissed the case due to non appearance.
e) Is there any way to close these two cases 498 & DV ACT CSES in lower court ,what are the chances to Quash the 498A & DV Act cases in high court ? and what is the grounds to do so ?.
Opinion: ground can be discuss if we know the details of case. Non appearance of complainant is sufficient to dismissed the cases. Or court may issue warrant against her for appearance.
f) Is it ok for my wife (petitioner for 498a & DV act ) to not attend court cases after filling the cases and mandatory for me and my family to attend the court cases ? Can I ask my lawyer to take any action against her if she is not attending the court cases ,
Opinion: as above.