Hello,

1) Regarding the money that he owes you Rs.14 lacs, you can file a recovery suit against him to get it back. You need to have proofs of the transaction like bank transfer, check payment or witnesses who were present or knew of the transactions.

2) First of all find out his whereabouts, gather information about his address in Dubai if possible. You can send him a legal notice to begin with asking him to return all the money that he has taken from you on different occasions.

3) If you know his email address or have contacts with him on social media send him a mail or message asking him to fulfill his promise to marry you immediately as you have waited long and already have undergone two painful abortions believing his promises.

4) If he fails to respond favourably you have the option to file a complaint of rape under promise to marry against him to get you justice.

5) As regards recovering the money that you have advanced him you will have to file a suit for recovery if he fails to return the money upon sending him a legal notice.

6) Engage a lawyer locally to assist you.

1. You shall have to decide as to what do you want to do with this man. Do you still want to marry him?

2. It appears that you have surrendered to all his terms without application of your mind which has lead you to this situation,

3. You can collect all documents evidencing that he had assured you that he will marry you,

4. You already had two abortions for which get medical certificate now, if possible,

5. File a criminal case against him for having physical relationship with you with the promise of marriage which resulted in to your two abortions and is now refusing to marry you since you are not in a position to pay the amount of dowry he is asking,

6. The incidence will be considered as rape,

7. After teaching him a good lesson , you should look forward in your life afresh.

If you have proofs of abortions and the details of abortions like names of both the spouses etc the medical bills and any other medical evidences, you may secure them.

If you proofs for the money transactions, you may secure them too.

After securing the evidences, you may firs lodge a complaint with the police narrating entire details including having had sex with you on the false promise of marriage.

He can be booked for the offences of rape, (even consensual sex n the promise of marriage and not keeping up t promise may be termed as rape), breach of trust (section 406), cheating (section 417) section 4 of DP act for demanding money as dowry, section 506 for criminal intimidation and based on your other allegations, the police may register FIR against him and issue notice to his address.

Take the help o a skilled lawyer, get your complaint neatly drafted covering all the offences he has done against you and lodge the complaint.

He may escape the law now but he cannot escape the same for ever.

He has to return to India one day that time he can be nabbed.

The promise to marry is not legally actionable unless there is some agreement between the parties. In India an agreement between two persons whereunder one agrees to marry the other is not legally enforceable. Unless you have specific evidence to prove that from inception he intended to dishonour his promise to marry you cannot criminally prosecute him. If you have documentary evidence which can prove the remittance of amount to him then you can file a suit for recovery of money against him.

You can do more but eventually you have to look legal effect of your step. He is in Dubai... no process of the court will be served upon him. criminal case may be filed under various sections of law but it will remain pending until he returns back in India.

So at this time you should forget the past and look forward. If you get any information about his returning in India immediately file case under extortion, criminal intimidation and debt act. You should collect all the evidence regarding payment of money, abortion, chat and conversation etc to prove your case.