I am an engineer and i got married to an engineer in 2003. both of us have government job. i have two daughters of age 10 and 4. Since marriage,
my husband hesitated to take responsibilities of family saying he has loans which he made for his parents and his brothers family. in the initial state it self, i have given nearly Rs. 2lakhs to him to settle his loans in 2007. Even after that he has contributed a very little amount from his earnings to us. in 2013 suddenly he started telling he has loan and struggling to come out of that. He started with 2Lakhs and ended with 5Lakhs, some how, i arranged and gave the amount. after 6 months or so, he told he has 15Lakhs of loan.
having two daughters, i didn't wanted loose family and and my daughters like their father so much, for their happiness i even tried to give the amount he wanted
by making loans on my name. All these i just did to save my family not just save my husband. after taking 15Lakhs, my husband is telling he still
have loan of 18Lakhs. he says all these loans he made for his family. not even one rupee of these loans he has contributed for his wife and children.
now i have come to know that, he has maintained relationship with two women whom he is talking without my knowledge. he says that they are just friends. when i checked with his call details
he has spent much time on them over phone for more than a year. he calls them more than 10 calls a day very frequently, in my absence. now i am really scared of my
position, because already i have made so much loans to give money, and for the livelihood, i have to depend on him too. i really don't know what to do,either to continue with him, or face the circumstances. please advice
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thanku for all the advice given. now i have gathered some evidences about my husband's extra marital affairs. he has kept physical relationship with his own cousin sister. i have got some of the voice call recordings form his phone. in the call recording he has clearly told that he has physical relation with that lady. both side voices are also clear. please advice what i can do with the call details and recordings. i want to get divorce from him and as well as want to seek maintenance for my 2 daughters. he is working in Government PSU. how much compensation i or my daughters may get. i don't want him to see my daughters in future. will court help me for that.
If i take compensation from him for my daughters, is there any law by which he will be allowed to meet my daughters at any time.
how i can challenge this issue. what legal issues i have to face from my side. please advice.
Asked 7 years ago