1. Assuming that the land was originally self acquired by your great grandfather (grandfather's father) and he gave a large piece of land to your grandfather through a registered deed, then in your grandfather's hands, it has to be treated as his seperate property having the characteristics of self acquired property and not his ancestral property. Then the registered Partition Deed dividing the land amongst his sons' is in order.Based on the partition deed, the land acquired by your father is his separate property and during your father's lifetime he will be independent to take any decision regarding this property including gifting or selling or executing WILL in favour of anyone.
In case your great grandfather had given a large piece of land to your grandfather without a registered document and the name of your great grandfather still remains intact in the property documents, then the property qualifies to be ancestral property.
2. You and your sister may convince your father to execute registered Gift Deed/Partition Deed/WILL demarcating clearly the boundaries amongst siblings.
3. To stop/prevent construction on your father's owned land, let your father bring Injunction Order as the property is in your father's name, which has to be treated as his self acquired property and your brother, without your father's permission, can't unilaterally construct buildings, including school for poor kids.
4. Regarding the plot in your mother's name bought by your father, it's not clear as to whether your mother is dead or alive. If dead, then whether she died intestate (without executing a WILL) or testate (executed WILL) naming the beneficiaries to her property.
5. Assuming that your mother died intestate, then her property would devolve equally to her husband and children. In the instant case, 1/4th undivided share to your father, 1/4th undivided share to you, 1/4th undivided share to your sister and 1/4th undivided share to your brother.
6. If your brother tries to sell this plot to a prospective buyer, then send a legal notice to him so that the issue could be resolved.