Record her threats
2) wide forcing husband to stay separate from parents amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce
3) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce
4) file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
Hi, I have got married since 3 years, I have a 2 year old child. After my marriage I have come to know that my inlaws are staying with my married sister in her house. They do not have any accommodation. During my marriage this fact was suppressed to me and my family members. Hence, during my wife's pregnancy she spent the entire period in my parent's house. In fact after that during any problem she use to stay in my parent's house. She never visited her parents place although she is constantly keep in touch with her parents through phone calls. My inlaws use to visit my parent's place to see their daughter. My elderly parents has performed all the duties towards my wife and my child. After the birth of my child the situation has changed she is not willing to stay with my parents anymore. I have made a separate accommodation for her in my workplace. We use to visit my parents place during vacations or for any medical emergency. However, my wife is constantly complaining me about about my mother. In fact she is threatening me to file domestic violence case against her in spite of taking all the services from my mother during her pregnancy period and afterwards. I am the only son of my parents. She is constantly pressurizing me not to visit my parent's place. If I do not fulfil any of her demands she use abusive language against me and my parents. She is not allowing me to show my child to my parents through video calls also. My wife is a homemaker she does not earn anything. I have to spend huge amount of money every month for two house maids (one for my child and one domestic help). After doing all my duties almost everyday I am humiliated. It is difficult for me to stay with her day by day. I want advice regarding my future course of action.
Record her threats
2) wide forcing husband to stay separate from parents amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce
3) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce
4) file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
- As per Supreme Court judgement, wife is expected to move in with the relatives of their husbands, follow the rules and customs of their home, and ideally, blend in seamlessly as a new daughter.
- Further, the court granted divorce to a man on the grounds of “cruelty” after his wife refused to share a home with her in-laws.
- Hence, as per law, she cannot deny living with you, under the condition of separate living from the family.
- Further, If wife is not supporting her husband for the enjoyment of life and denying relation, then the husband can get divorce after filing a divorce petition before the court on this ground.
- Further, she cannot disallow to the father of the child to meet , and the father being the natural guardian can seek visitation right and custody of the child .
- Further, if wife is living separate without any sufficient cause , then it can be considered as cruelty towards husband and a ground for divorce.
- Further, if wife lied or concealed the true facts at the time of marriage , then the marriage can be declared as null and void by the court.
- Hence, if she is not interested to live with you with your parents , then you can take her consent for mutual divorce and on refusal you can file a divorce petition on the aforesaid grounds .
If the domestic incidents are aggravating beyond tolerance you may decide to live separately away from her.
You can file a petition under section 10 of HMA seeking judicial separation.
Once you get a decree in your favor, you may decide about filing a divorce case in furtherance if there is no improvement in the married life or if reconciliation is possible to live a peaceful life together thereafter.
For now you don't allow her mother also to visit your home if your wife is very strict about your mother's visit or even talking to your children.
You can visit to Family Counselor along with your wife and explain them a situation . Family Counselor will explain all merits and demerits of the situations to your wife.
You may be a victim of mental harassment and cruelty by your wife. Mental harassment and cruelty is a ground for divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 and the Special Marriage Act, 1954. Mental harassment and cruelty can be defined as any conduct or behaviour that causes mental pain, agony, or suffering to the other spouse and makes it impossible for them to live together peacefully.
Some of the examples of mental harassment and cruelty by a wife are:
If you are facing any of these situations, you can take legal action against your wife for mental harassment and cruelty. Some of the legal remedies available for you are:
These are some of the legal options that you can consider for your future course of action. However, before taking any legal step, you should also try to resolve your issues with your wife amicably through counselling, mediation, or negotiation. You should also consult a lawyer or a legal expert for further guidance and assistance.
Dear client I am sorry to hear about your situation how ever in this case you can go at and file a divorce petition before the court under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act on the ground of harassment and cruelty
1. You shallhave to decide as to what do you want to do now under your present circumstances.
2. You can pull on with her such illegal and cruel treatments with you for your child or seek a decree of divorce on the ground of cruelty.
3. Her insisting you for not visiting your parent's place and her refusing to allow you to show your child on video calling with your parents are clear case of cruelty on the part of your wife for which decree of divorce cvasn be sought by you.
4. I will suggest you to colect and preserve all her such illegal cruel acts on you by cleverly vidie recording the incidences.
Dear Sir,
You are suggested to be bold and mentally strong. Being only son of parents, you have very pious duty to look after them and your wife can't make any hinderance in that. Give a strong thought, do discuss with friend and collegues to find some solution. Also, have video record of her activities so that you will be able to convince anyone if you are questioned. After gathering suffcient material proof, take strong steps and reply her strongly.
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