• My wife blaming me on affair

We have been married 5 months ago, but everyday my wife fights with me for evrything and torturing me mentally.. she is from village background with MSC as her qualification. i am working as in IT professional so I shared about my friends, teammates later on she started blaming me for affair even after i introduced her few people., Always she involving few unmarried girls from my colleuges also.. and she also potty negative informtion about me with thier parents and she left the home by fighting..I asked her to prove my affairs..but there family aksing me to bring evryone infront of them nd asking me to prove I am not having affairs with them and also asking addresses of everyone for which i said i don't bring anyone, she tortuing mentally literally if I go for walking also and getting any call also by saying as affair.. so what should I do now if they decided to seperate and filing any case ?
Asked 2 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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9 Answers

File for divorce on expiry of one year of marriage on grounds of mental cruelty 

 

2) wife accusing husband of having extra marital affairs amounts to mental cruelty 

 

3) rely upon messages exchanged with wife ,audio recordings to prove allegations made by wife 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99784 Answers
8145 Consultations

Record their threats 

 

2) if any false dowry harassment case is filed apply for and obtain Anticipatory bail from sessions court 

 

3) if police seek phone numbers and presence of colleagues give information sought by cops 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99784 Answers
8145 Consultations

Don’t complicate by brining police and Courts. This happens in the beginning of marriage. Let her miss you for some days but keep in touch now and then. Talk to her parents directly and assure them that such mixing in IT is normal and no one takes disadvantage of it. Just to keep you on guard, law is in favour of women, if the matter is precipitated it will be difficult for men.

Ravi Shinde
Advocate, Hyderabad
5133 Answers
42 Consultations

It is your fault when you shoe off to be modern while your wife donot like it and she is suspicious also.  Five months time us too short to adjust so mend your ways.Try to understand your wife and her nature. Donot bring your lady colleague at home and donot show off to wife. Reconcile the matter with wife. Always remember that wife has more remedies in law which are sufficient to ruin entire family. 

Siddharth Srivastava
Advocate, Delhi
1551 Answers

Dear Client,


  1. Open Communication: Try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife about your feelings and concerns. Address the accusations she's making and express your desire to resolve the issues that are causing distress.

 


  1. Counseling: If communication isn't productive, consider seeking the help of a professional marriage counselor. A counselor can provide a safe space for both of you to discuss your feelings and concerns with guidance from an experienced third party.

3.Documentation: Keep records of any interactions, conversations, or accusations. These records might be useful if legal or counseling intervention is needed.

 

Regards

Prime Legal

Anik Miu
Advocate, Bangalore
11014 Answers
125 Consultations

To some extent a wife suspecting her husband is tolerable because it is their typical character, but it should not exceed the limits otherwise it will cause more harm and damages in the marital life.

You can ask her to remain silent by not indulging in such activities which may spoil your name and reputation not only in the society but also in the work atmosphere which may even cost you your job.

If she is not listening neither her parents are willing to convince her and makes her silent, then you can choose to live separately away from her and also you can file a petition under section 10 HMA for judicial separation and start living separately.

In retaliation she may file different criminal case against you which you can  challenge properly.

Since your marriage is not even one year old you cannot file  divorce case at this stage.

 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
89986 Answers
2493 Consultations

The incident of adultery or illicit affairs by a a married man with any other female other than his wife, is not a crime, hence police cannot entertain any such complaint, therefore there is no necessary to give the phone numbers of your colleagues, actually this act will embarrass your colleagues and may cause you additional problems from your work side too if those female colleagues make a complaint against you to the employer for this harassment in the work place.

If they are filing any false criminal cases agaisnt you, then first you obtain anticipatory bail and then challenge the same properly in the trial court.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
89986 Answers
2493 Consultations

- As per Supreme Court judgment, wife is expected to move in with the relatives of their husbands, follow the rules and customs of their home, and ideally, blend in seamlessly as a new daughter. 

- Further, the court granted divorce to a man on the grounds of “cruelty” after his wife refused to share a home with her in-laws.

- Further, If wife is not supporting her husband for the enjoyment of life and denying relation, then the husband can get divorce after filing a divorce petition before the court on this ground.

- Further, she cannot blame you for the  past friendship and only the relationship  after the marriage can be considered , however she cannot take any legal action against you without having a proof of the same , and maximum she can take divorce on the ground of extra marital affairs. 

- Further, no complaint or case is maintainable only on the ground of her allegation of having affairs , hence police cannot ask you phone number etc. of your friend , and if even he tried to do so then your friend can file a criminal defamation case against her and police official. 

- Extra marital affairs can be a ground of divorce and nothing more. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
15814 Answers
242 Consultations

No need to bring any colleagues to police station. She can’t force you to do so. A police case is not maintainable in above circumstances 

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
34520 Answers
249 Consultations

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