Elder Abuse - Urgent Attention
I am Mrs. Shilpi Das Chohan, a 48 years old woman writing on behalf of my mother Mrs. Pushpa Das, a senior citizen and a victim of elder abuse. My mother stays at her family home, her father’s property, in a village called Fulia in West Bengal. She chose to stay there since the time she was the only one taking care of her 96 years old mother, who is no more as well as financially help her younger brother and his family.
My brother and I live in Bangalore. Sometimes she travels to stay with us alternately. However, when she lives in the village home, her sister-in-law (younger brother’s wife) along with her children aged 26 (son) and 21 (daughter), torment my mother acutely traumatising her mentally as well as physically abusing her.
Although the children are now away from home pursuing their studies and career, whenever they visit home on holidays, they team up with their mother and humiliate her to the extent of threatening to poison her or kill her. They often steal, destroy or throw away her belongings to keep inconveniencing her. The sister-in-law, who is sadly my aunt, continues to do so even when her children go back to their respective places and keep abusing my mother.
My father has served with the Indian Navy for 38 years, with whom my mother has lived a very dignified and respectful life. He demised 17 years ago, after which my mother moved to the village home to care for her ageing and ailing mother, abandoned by every other family member. Ironically, she took care of her mother’s needs financially too with her pension. With the same pension, she also supported this very younger brother’s family, as he wasn’t doing well financially.
Further, because of her continuous requests, my husband organised to hire her brother’s son in a multinational company in Bangalore where he now works since two years, although he wasn’t academically qualified for the job. My husband’s team trained him to come up to speed and help him fit in aptly.
Despite all the support my mother has extended to them for years, instead of feeling gratitude, they ill-treat her no end.
Please note my mother is neither physically nor financially dependent on anyone. She is quite an active lady and not a liability to anyone so far. She takes care of herself and keeps herself occupied with her philanthropic and spiritual activities. The village house is quite spacious and everyone living there fortunately has their own space. She is being subjected to the atrocities and abuse by her brother's family there as they do not consider her to have the right to stay in her father's property or inherit any part of it that she is entitled to.
No senior citizen deserves such a life in the last phase of their life. I am glad I have come across your helpline and feel hopeful.
We seek your help urgently to help her live the rest of her life peacefully in a dignified manner. Please consider this as an urgent request, as matters are only worsening.
Asked 2 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Since she is located in Fulia, Dist - Nadia, West Bengal, could you please help me with the regional senior citizen helpline or tribunal's number and also where should she file the suit?
Asked 2 years ago