Should I be worried about US divorce or custody?
I and my husband are indian citizen and daughter is minor US citizen. I have filed child custody, hmp, dmv and child maintenance cases in India, and after getting notice husband filed for divorce and emergency custody orders in California court. India court has not denied the jurisdiction for my daughter and cases are in preceding.
I have filed a motion to dismiss the cases in California court and the final order is yet to arrive. I have filed all vases before my husband filed in US.
Please answer to below questions will be great help for me.
1. My lawyer in California filed motion to dismiss the cases filed by my husband in Dec2022, but the US court decision on jurisdiction is yet to arrive, I have attended 2 hearings but all regarding jurisdiction. In the meanwhile, I received judgement from India court on child custody that I have right guardianship to renew her US passport without my husband's consent. (My husband and his family stole my daughter's US passport and wasn't giving his consent for renwal, US embassy required court permission and I got this April,2023)
The India order says ,mother has the custody for the availing of the passport purposes only.
Will the Order is enough to dismiss the cases in US? I still have 3 pending cases in India.
2. I do not want to go on trial in US court, if the US court does not dismiss the cases, can I step back and keep fighting the cases in India only? He will get the order if I do not participate in the trial, but I have only filed a response to dismiss the cases.
3. If he gets the order of divorce and child custody, can he enforce it on me in India? Me and my daughter are living in India since june, 2021. Should I worry about the cases in USA? There is hearing coming up on in 2 days, I can not afford US lawyer, I don't know if he is going to represent me in the court this week. This is not fair to me and my daughter that I filed cases (after satying in India over 15months), before husband did and he gets jurisdiction over cases. We both married in India and I came back with 2yr old daughter, who is 4 now.
Can I challenge the US court jurisdiction in india? Will the India court accept the US order?
4.my husband offered settlement to divorce in US and is asking is asking for visits in summer and winter vacation, I did not agreed to settle the case in US because if i divorce him in US then US will have jurisdiction over all cases and what if he takes my child out of country without telling me and file for physical custody again in US, I only want to settle the cases in India for our safety.
Should I stop all the case issues in US and focus only in Inida? My lawyer asked him for settlement in India but he said and lied that he is not aware of US offer that has been given to me.
Thank you.
Asked 2 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thank you for responses.
I want to ask few more questions that
My USA lawyer told me before, if husband gets custody orders he can not impose on me because child is living in India with her mother. And there is cases pending in India as well.
I am not financially strong as my husband,
How is it fair to me if he gets jurisdiction over child custody because he is in USA. He has not cared for child for the last 2 years neither emotionally nor financially. I read online, India court has the jurisdiction if the child is ordinary resident of India, my daughter is living in India since June 2021 and has been studying in school from the last year.
1. How is it possible to not interfere with US citizen custody, when india court has jurisdiction over our divorce case as indian citizens? How the divorce and custody case be continued in two countries?
2. Because my india lawyer didn't have enough knowledge about appearing in USA court, I ended up submitting my response in US court which will affect me in India. However, I can not spend dollars like my husband,who earns in USA. India court is taking more time to order my spousal support.
If the US court gives order that USA court have jurisdiction, what can I file in india, district court, high court or Supreme court to deny or stay that order? I do not want to carry on with USA case. I can not fight in two countries.
Please help me with the these queries.
Thank you.
Asked 2 years ago