1. If the property belonged to joint family then it will come under HUF, in that case a single person cannot get any share in the property by a gift deed executed by another member of the HUF.
The properties under HUF belong to all the members of the HUF equally hence the transfer of property by executing gift deed in favor your daughter by your son ignoring the rights of other members of the HUF is not legally maintainable, hence the aggrieved persons can file a suit for partition and claim their legitimate rights and shares in the proeprty even at this stage ignoring the fact of this gift deed.
2. If the relinquishment deed made is required to be cancelled then it should be done within three years from the date of execution, since your case is barred by limitation, it may not be maintainable at this stage.
3. You can file a suit for partition claiming your rightful share in the property if you are not a party to the gift deed and the release deed.
You cannot fight for others rights.
4. You can file an injunction petition restraining her from alienating or encumbering the property further in any manner till the disposal of the partition suit that you propose to file now.
5. If you want to have a proper and legally valid solution to the problem that you are facing now, it is advisable that you approach court with a suit for partition and other ancillary reliefs, unless you will not be able to bring peace into your home, all these issues will keep developing without any solution forever.
Further questions:
1. you can decide about claiming your rights in all the properties or only in some of the particular properties, there is no compulsion on you about it.
2. Yes, in your written statement you can make a claim to your legitimate share in the said properties as a right.