1. Panchayat has nothing to do in the matter which is to be dealt by the Court, 2. You should first decide as to what do you want. Do you want to stay with your wife? 3. Does your wife also want to stay with you? 4. If both of you want to continue, then bring her back to your house, 5. If she does not want to return to you, no body on earth can force her to join you & in such case discuss with her amicably & settle for mutual consent divorce.