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Hi , My cousin sister was in a relation with a boy , that both shared some personal photos , all of a sudden boy starts saying that he dont want to continue and also said her to marry with the boy her family has selected , 
I am sorry there may be many things but as the girl is currently not in situation to tell all , all that she tell us that , that boy saved her pictures take screenshots , when she said her to delete that , firstly he was not agree , then when she send her proofs of chat where it was written he has taken screenshots ( instagram chat ) then he started fighting and said do whatever you want to do , she with his mother they clearly said his father will shoot you , and its not a big deal people now a days see lot of blue films and forgot all . After this they blocked the girl's contact number from everywhere , boy deleted his instagram profile , his phone is also switched off from then , boy's cousin's number is contactable but he is also notresponding.

And my cousin is saying once boy has said in normal talks that he will make film of the picture , but later he turned this talk in a joke .

After all this incidents , girl is in a lot of stress , having treatment from a psychiatrist , her concern is boy's only intention was to take pictures , he cheated her , and can use pictures in wrong way.

She wants to file a police complaint but not doing cause she dont want this matter to come in front of her family.

Is there any way to send her any notice or to do complaint so that she can handle her at own , without involement of family as after fir police comes at house address also , even after providing of phone number.
Its a request to please advice as she cant share this with family . ?
Asked 4 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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Before he does any damage to your reputation by showing your pics, take help of police. They will deal him in such a way, he will forget everything about blackmailing you. Your complaint will be treated confidentially, police will not disclose anything to your parents. Having physical relationship by promise to marry is rape. You can send him to jail and recover damages from him. Teach him a lesson which he will never forget. You might be having all the proof like his call records and other things. File a complaint with mahila police giving all the details of proof and evidence for rape and cheating. Your id will be kept secret by police. You can also mail your complaint to National Commission for Women from your laptop . Give all details like your phone number, his phone number and police station details. National Commission for Women will direct police to investigate and arrest him. In all cases your id will be kept secret. If you want you can force him to marry you but he is not worth. 

Ravi Shinde
Advocate, Hyderabad
5133 Answers
42 Consultations

File police complaint against st boy for rape under section 376 of IPC  as he had sex with her under promise of marriage and is also threatening to transmit her personal pictures 

 

2) transmitting of personal pictures is an offence under section 67 A of IT act 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99983 Answers
8162 Consultations

- If she not want to file a compliant before the  police then either she can send a legal notice to him for giving proof and affidavit that he has deleted the photos' and will not misuse the same in future. 

- If he refused to give affidavit then she can loge a complaint before the Cyber cell online after narrating the said facts . 

- Further, if she wanted to marry with him , then she can send a notice to him that after promise of marriage he cannot backtrack , and if he does so then she will file a compliant before the police and higher official. 

 

You can contact me , if further suggestion needed. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
15844 Answers
243 Consultations

She can give a complaint to the cyber police  and in the same complaint she can request the police to keep this matter as secret because of the wrath that she may have to fave in the society including her own parents etc.

The police will cooperate but the police would require her to visit the station for investigation purpose.

 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
90184 Answers
2506 Consultations

Dear Client 

You must file an FIR with your local police station. Thereafter, they will take care of the rest. Normally, the police treat these types of cases as confidential. you can also file an online complaint on National cyber crime portal.

Thank you

Anik Miu
Advocate, Bangalore
11069 Answers
125 Consultations

Yes it is possible, hire a legal representative or also you can file a complaint with cyber crime department, you can do it online . They will take care of everything and also you just need to go to court once and once to police station for giving your statement. You can take your friend with yourself.  

Khyati Malik
Advocate, Bhopal
91 Answers
2 Consultations

Anything discreet can't be done. Even notice will ne disclosed in public later. But she can try sending notice through advocate

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
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Yes you need to have the address or office address and sent it on the same , also email the recipient, you can whatsapp also and keep the delivery proof of speed post after it got delivered. 


Hire a legal representative , they will prepare it for you and after that they will take care. It is also advisable to file a cyber complaint , it is fast . 

Khyati Malik
Advocate, Bhopal
91 Answers
2 Consultations

You can send it at boy residential address or at at his email address 

 

you can’t send it to relatives address 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99983 Answers
8162 Consultations

Sending a notice through an advocate in this matter may not be very effective.

However you can contact any local advocate and proceed with the proposed legal notice.

Since you have his phone number it is advisable that you give a complaint with the police as suggested and request the police to not reveal your details neither to come to your house in this regard.

The police will maintain the confidentiality as requested by you.

 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
90184 Answers
2506 Consultations

You can engage any reputed lawyer to send a legal notice.

 

Your lawyer on your request, may choose not to diclose teh adrress of his/her client upon the legal notice.

 

Legal notice can be sent through email/WhatsApp as well; and hence not necessary for your to pull out the address detail's of this gut. 

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9765 Answers
323 Consultations

Dear Client,

Yes, to send a hard copy of the notice it is necessary to have his address but if you send the soft copy of such legal notice via email then also it is acceptable. 

Thank you

Anik Miu
Advocate, Bangalore
11069 Answers
125 Consultations

You can conceal your address. If not received then you need to try to serve him in other modes of service. 

Only if that person stays at relatives place otherwise no

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
34663 Answers
249 Consultations

- Legal notice will be send though an Advocate after mentioning all the details , and if he  will not come forward then a police compliant can be filed against him 

- Police will not come to your house for any enquiry . 

- You can contact me  in Delhi. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
15844 Answers
243 Consultations

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