My boyfriend promised to marry me before making physical relationship. After few months I got to know that he lied to me about his age, his salary, his education, etc. He lied to me about his family status as well. I have all the whatsapp chats as evidence. These things did not matter to me but I still confronted him as I was hurt, especially about his age. He then told me that he wouldn’t marry me. Upon my constant request, he agreed. Things were normal then. I even had abortion twice for which I have all the hospital bills, transaction details, etc. Now 6 months ago I got to know that while he was with me he was also with another woman throughout. When confronted again, he apologised a lot. But I just threatened him about the money (3.45 lakhs) that I had given him while we were together. After transferring the amount he called me to tell me that he had realised his mistake and he wanted to meet my parents to discuss our marriage. I took some time but eventually believed him and focused on the positive. Our parents met and discussed everything. I had given him 3 lakhs again within these 6 months because he wanted a bike. Now last week he called me to give me a very lame reason and told me that he won’t be able to get married to me. I got furious and asked all my money back. Initially he hesitated but I threatened him to take legal action against him so that is why he transferred all the amount. Now, after knowing his reality, I don’t want to get married to him at all. But I want to know what charges can I levy upon him as he has wasted 2.5 years of my life where I was getting really good proposals but he made me decline all of them. He has cheated not only me but many girls and now my parents and I want to really see him getting punished for his bad deeds. Also, he is addicted to drugs like hash and weed.
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You entered into a physical relationship with him on the pretext of marriage. He promised to marry you but has deceived you and because of this relationship you have suffered a lot.
Therefore charges of rape cheating and criminal breach of trust can be filed as your consent was no consent at all.
File case against your boy friend for cheating under section 420 of IPC
also case of rape under section 376 of IPC as you had sex with him on basis of his promise to marry you
You can file cheating against him for the same and recover your money. Rape will not be maintainable.
You can very well give a complaint against him withe police in your locality.
He has committed the offences of cheating, rape and intimidation besides other offences like breach of trust etc.
You draft a complaint neatly describing the events in chronological order and wherever possible you can attach the copies (not original) namely about abortion and other events like the money that you had transferred to him in good faith, etc., as documentary evidences supporting your complaint.
The police may register FIR under sections 376, 406, 417, 420, 506 and 509 IPC too.
Once the FIR is registered then his life will become miserable and he may beg to you to withdraw the complaint.
You may not forgive him because he will play the same old drama again to hit you sentimentally and may go scotfree after that to spoil the life of another girl/woman with flirting habits.
You may not show any mercy to him once you have decided to lodge the complaint against him.
Dear Client,
You can very well file a case against the person who cheated you u/s 376 r/w 417 which amounts to rape by deceiving in guise of other relationships and it should be substantiated with proper and sufficient evidences
If your boyfriend is betrays you induce you for sexual intercourse you can file criminal complaint against him ipc cheating 420 , rape case 376 .
Thankyou
Hi, you can registered police complaint against him for cheating and breach of trust. That is only appropriate way.
Thanks everyone for responding. Since I was lied about the person’s age, salary, etc. and a false promise of marriage was made to me before getting into physical relationship, can I charge him with ipc 376? Because some lawyers say that I am an educated woman and in this case my consent would be taken as positive. But I was lied to about personal details. Then shouldn’t it be no consent as it was cheating? Also, I can prove through messages and transaction details that this person’s intention was only to gain money from me and not getting married. So please let me know if I can charge him with ipc 376 or not? Thank you.
as i have already stated that you can and should charge him with rape criminal breach of trust and cheating.
Yes, having sexual relationship on the promise of marriage and refusing to marry would amount to rape offence.
There are various judgments to ascertain this.
The complaint should be lodged in such a manner that the commission of cheating, breach of trust, sexual relationship with false promise to marry should be properly made out in the complaint.
Don't mention about the false age, because that's not an offence.
You can file case of rape against your boy friend under section 376 of IPC as he had sex with you under promise of marriage
Dear client,
Trying to charge him with Section 376 may be possible as long as you can show that you were not aware of his real nature because of everything he lied to you about. However, it will be up to the court to decide whether the lies he made up with regard to his education, personal details, etc. can count as him not revealing his true identity to you. Since Section 376 is a very serious charge, the court will look into the matter very seriously. Him lying to you about such things may not constitute such a charge, but it will be up to the court to decide that.
Thank you.
You can file complaint against him for the offence of cheating, fraud, criminal breach of trust and rape of pretext of false promises of marriage under section 415, 420, 406 and 376 of the Indian penal code.
If you file such a complaint against him, the onus of proof to prove that the person has had physical relationship with you and had also promised to marry you which he later refused.
You can charge the said section but it will not be maintainable and difficult to prove. You will succeed in cheating