Married and living separate, need remedies
Dear Lawyers
I got married on 11 Feb 2019, went to Thailand for honeymoon for 7 days n spent lavishly for her n shown lot of love irrespective of her mom behaviour on marriage day.
My wife mom is arrogant, dominant and disrespectful to me n my family from the day 1 of marriage. She want me to be a slave to fulfill their wishes n asking me to come seperate using fake ideas preaching to her daughter and my wife follow her mom mode of treatment, after two months of marriage, no love n affection on me.
After 6 months 1st Oct 2019 , wife went away by making issues with her mom. 1st feb 2020, they came to my house n made issues n taken jewel. Near my members called police and we went to station but police told to talk n sort out or go to women police.
Outside of police station, Wife side relatives asked me whether I want to live with her. I said yes, they wrote in a white paper that I will find a house n live seperate, n I told them to write they have taken gold in the same paper, n both me n wife signed..till that moment I was in dilemma n doesn't know what is happening..but they literally threatened . To avoid my parents to talk or argue, I want to end the things smoothly..so I signed..fr that day to march 2020, wife abuse me my calling 100 times n pressure me to see a house n threatened she will go to police...then I realized this marriage life is not worth n stopped message or talks..
Meanwhile I was getting on-site opportunity due to corona it got postponed to May 2021, now I'm in a situation to travel but my passport got expired in Jan 2021, I applied for new passport by asking members in passport office what status , one person said not legally divorce n not living together for kong time , u can put seperate...so I got new passport n did pcc as well...near by police who verified pcc for passport n know my story n didn't said much about the status...he told to talk n try to wife....for putting visa again pcc , same person came n verified...no issues on marriage status...old passport is taken during my 12th n new passport taken on Oct 2020..both passport doesn't have wife name .
Will it make any issues, btw I don't have marriage certificate either to add her name , since I decided to divorce, I gave status as seperated.. passport doesn't have any status printed..n no wife name.... Atleast I want to go onsite n work for 6 to 8 months to save some amount...my wife is silent n some times asking me what decision I have taken but her mom is the final decision..If they taje decision it will be smooth n I go for mutual..if i file divorce they will counter attack ..what shall I do in this situation, please help..
Asked 3 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Dear Lawyers,
I have told my story in the earlier questions. Hope you read..it's been 2 years of seperation, wife doesn't come back but asked divorce via mails , asked me to take decision etc. These things happen ed within 3 months of seperation.Her arrogant n aggresive mom has made issues n taken their gold n silver items too n pressurized me for come for Separate house, as they doesn't like my parents n my wife doesn't want to stay with them ..I never went to seperate house n never replied her ..it's been 2 years .in this last 7 months she message like take decision or what's the plan. Or let us live like thst...age is going like that she is saying..complete unpredictable mindset she possses..I can't say let's go for divorce becoz they will do criss cross decision..if I say yes they will say no ..like that... Meanwhile Long awaited onsite work permit visa (working in software industry)and sow got signed for me... minimum 6 months work...how shall I leave India in this condition..for them they don't like me...wife doesn't have own mind to take decision..if her mom says to divorce she will do ..
In this wife mentality..
1. What precautions I should take before I travel...if they reach police stating I absconded without answer n call me via phone call, my office trip will be a valid justification for them ??? Will police listen my justification or my statement that their multiple attacks n public abuse they did on me n my family before 2 years ..I have all mails..
2.If I travel, if they come to know, can they bring back me to India.
3. Legally what shall I do to safe guard my parents from them during my travel.
4 . I decided to divorce but how n who shall first initiate ?
Asked 2 years ago