• Ex girlfriend - marriage promise - infidelity - intimate relationship

We know each other since 2014, never engaged in much interactions.
Early 2019, we talked and considered each other to get into a relationship with an intent to get married.
July 2019, we got into a relationship. I was emotionally connected, she wasn’t. So she visited me and we spent a weekend at a resort and got intimate. She get the physical connect as me, but the emotional connect was missing.
She looped in her parents and sister in December 2019. They liked us together.
Until end of Feb, her parents met us together several times and were asking our commitment to which we both said we were committed.
We had sexual intercourse several times between August 19 and February 20.
Apprantly, our communication wasn’t that good, I feel she did not get the emotional connect.


On Feb 14, I got a call to check whether I sent a gift to her office. I did not. I met her on Feb 14 night and gave my gift.

In March, she started avoiding me.

During pandemic, in April - she simply said I don’t feel home with you and broke up. There was an argument but we closed 

In July we had another argument, this time she blocked me and my Mom spoke to her Mom. She had told her mother that I was annoying her and her mother spoke in a similar tone with my Mom, and my mother clearly said to her that they both were together with an intent to get married, and they were sexually active only because of the same. It wasn’t just a fling. Communication did not head anywhere.

In August, we spoke again, she unblocked, but we did not talk about or think about being in relationship.

All this while - there was no closure, so I used to feel upset from time to time.

In March 2021, we spoke again, I talked about our good times and wished it worked. She avoided communication on that. I got a bit low, and wrote some emotional things, finally clearly writing to her that she was the aggressive and arrogant partner, and I was not at fault, and that I do not want anything to do with her now. Don’t expect much or communication from me, I am finding another match. Just hold on and cooperate for a little longer.

She blocked me. I got extremely upset. I wrote to her sister courteously to help us close graciously. I also wrote to her close friend, shard a couple of pictures, us and family, to explain her we were committed. And I was trying a gracious closure. Her friend got offended and started hurling abuses at me. 

That night I got a con call from her and her friends and they abused me, and threatened me. She said only wrong she did was to commit marriage and have sexual relations with me. She called me separately and told she was meeting her Ex when we were together. She agreed she is with Ex but I doubt. I don’t want an infidel in my life. Feb 14 gift was from ex.

This has caused me intense mental and emotional pain and trauma. I felt suicidal too.

I want to know if there is any legal action I can pursue against her, though I would want to avoid and let it be.