Thrown out from house, what to do?
My brother married 27 years back a girl from a rich family having only three daughters, he stayed in our home town for 5 years after marriage and had two sons, its a sort of happy middle class family.
Then his wife insisted and pestered him to shift to his in-laws city Mysore, he denied initially, she started threatening saying she will commit suicide if he didn't agree for it.Finally he moved to Mysore after winding up his business and selling his immovable property at our place . Bought a house in Mysore in the name of her wife from the funds he mobilized. Joined in-laws business for some time and then he opened a separate shop in the in-laws premises itself as they could not do business jointly due some differences. At this point he planned to return to our native place and start all over again but wife did not agree then,
In-laws provided the space (shop) to carry separate business by taking his signatures on RS 500 stamp blank paper. He could earn only to meet the expenses of a normal middle class family ,educating his two sons in engineering streams.But his wife totally unhappy with the developments as she needs to have a high class life style,so the differences cropped in and grown to a every day arguments and fights.
Elder son ,a brilliant engineering graduate joined Microsoft in Bangalore, and left the job with in three months and started his own business and struggled for three years and could not establish himself and incurred some losses, exact losses known to him only.,so my brother was sending money to him for his monthly maintenance as all the capital investment given to him was depleted.
Mean while, recently his younger son, engineering graduate looking for a job committed suicide due to depression and health problem (medical treatment and counseling was going on since three years when he made his first attempt to end his life.)
After his death , the family totally collapsed and my brother had no "piece of mind" and he was totally disturbed , so he went to Thirupathi to seek blessings of Lord Venkateshwara and when he returned after 3 or 4 days, the most devastating things had happened here .
One: his wife and elder son vacated the house taking away all the house hold goods ,articles and jewels leaving behind his clothes and personal items and handing over the keys to the house owner.
Two: his shop is locked with master keys and he is unable to open the shop with the regular keys and carry on his day to day business.
Three: when he went and asked about all this, with his in-laws ,they said we don't know ,go ask your wife and son only .
Four : received threatening phone calls from son, saying don't try to break the shop doors if you do so, we will break your bones. Just simply take the left over items from the house and go away from us and do not try to contact us and show your face for one year at least.
Five: My brother wandering here and there ( mysore and Bangalore) with out proper clothes and food since one week ,not knowing what to do. His health is also upset since two days.
Six: He does not want us (brothers) to approach his in-laws, wife and son for discussion, saying that his wife totally disagreed to bring in any of our family members in to the matter.
Seven: we financially helped him to approach police and advocates. He went to Mysore in the morning with some money to approach lawyer and take legal advice and police protection. we are all worried a lot and sitting helplessly here.
Eight : son also taken away the car standing in my brothers name, so if something bad happens it comes to his head
I am the only qualified and educated brother to him .so what and how best I can help him under this situation.
Please, please help me with right legal solution and advice for the situation so that I can save my Brother.
Asked 9 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thanks to all of you for the advice and bringing in some hope. some clarifications and questions to follow.
1. Shop building is owned by in-laws , but the business/trade establishment is in his name and for all the goods and articles he is the owner, he is the sole proprietor of the business firm.
2. the own house is in wife's name but the funds has come from my brothers HUF account . In fact he has utilized the capital gains accounting after selling native place property and buying Mysore property in the same year.
Since it is in her name ,she insisted to shift to a rented house by saying and convincing my brother that we need a bigger house and near by house to the two college going sons. she collected the rent from the tenant and used as her pocket money, and my poor brother was paying the rent for the rented house.hence the situation of handing over the key to the owner when they vacated the house .
3. Where can I get address and contact details of
some good, knowledgeable and reputed Lawyers/Advocates of Mysore. Here I could find contacts of only Bangalore advocates.
4. It seems he received a phone call from help line of "CAW cell of Mysore" to visit them as there is some complaint from his wife.It seems they provide some conciliation/advice. What is CAW cell ? how to handle this ?
5. It seems my brother also received a phone call from his co-brother who is in Hasan yesterday night,and admonished my brother not to try to contact my brother's wife and son by phone or by any other means.
Please ask any other clarification you need from our end so that we can take right legal steps and save my brother from this mess and can lead a normal life.
Asked 9 years ago