1. It would be a criminal offence to discontinue /disconnect Water and Electricity connections. This has been upheld by several HC judgments.
2. Association CANNOT force you for Club-House membership money /contributions and you can just simply refuse declaring that you do not wish to use club house.
3. IF forced, you have option to file grievance petition before the local Consumer Court, for such illegal trade practices, harassment & intimidation etc.... and claim damages & compensation for the mental & physical trauma that you would undergo.