• No maintenance received till 6 years of contested divorce application

Hello Sir, 

This is MP here.

A) I have filed DIVORCE CASE in Mumbai Bandra family court HMA 13(1)(ia) against my husband in 
 December,2014.The case is still running in the family court and my husband attends the matter after 
 skipping 3-4 date.I have also prayed for maintenance in divorce petition for me and my 2 kids 
 (Daughter-16 yrs and Son-18 Yrs as on date)

B) I have not received a singe rupee as a maintenance till date. My husband has business of eggs at 
 his native place but he says in court that i have nothing and he dont earn so he cant give 
 maintenance.Due this drama and his allegations against me that i have an affair with some guy in 
 Mumbai 6 years has passed.

C) Husband has filed RCR against me at Jaunpur in March,2015 and last year he got an order in his 
 favor in RCR.I didn't had money to reply my case of RCR so my lawyer sent few notice and once or 
 twice he produce lawyer at Jaunpur to set aside the matter and run the matter. After that nothing 
 done from my side.

D) My lawyer filed section-125 in April,2019 and Domestic Violence in March,2019 against him.

E) In my last hearing of Divorce case my husband submitted the RCR execution copy. Due to this my 
 lawyer said if RCR is finally executed i will not be liable for any maintenance.So in this case i need to 
 start the RCR case and run the matter at jaunpur and that will cost me a lot to fight that case.

F) I have spent around more than 2 Lakhs in my case since 6 years. I don't work and i stay with my 
 mothers home with my 2 kids.I have sold all everything i had for this case and i have left with 
 nothing. Only my parents can hardly take care of my kids for a year or 2.

My Queries :

1) Please give me an expert advise what should i do as i dont have money now to fight case against 
 above cases and defending RCR at jaunpur.

2) If the RCR will be executed will i really loose maintenance for me and my kids ?

3) If i settle all the matters and go for mutual divorce after that can my son claim for his share in future 
 from my husband ?

4) My husband father died last year but still the house at village is in the name of my husband father 
 name. Can we show such evidence in court that atleast he can give share in his home ? My 
 husband also purchased few property in his native place district but we dont have any clue.

5) Its been 6 years. Looking at my Case status should i forget about my maintenance ?

6) Since i dont have money to fight the case so is there any other alternative ?

7) Filing RTI or writing letter to Human rights, DCP, CM will help me ?? Is there any provision for Women who is not earning and having kids will help me. Please please suggest i am in big trouble.

Thank You
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
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11 Answers

1) file appeal in HC against decree passed of RCR in jaunpur

 

2) in RCR case you could have claimed maintenance for yourself and kids 

 

3) filed petition in SC to transfer case to Mumbai 

 

4)best option is to go in for divorce by mutual consent 

 

5) your son can inherit father property on his demise . he and your daughter would be his legal heirs if he dies intestate 

 

6)you need to gather evidence of property standing in husband name 

 

7)apply to district legal aid center if you dont have funds 

 

8) court should have awarded you interim maintenance . if however you are guilty of adultery you are not entitled to any maintenance 

 

9) writing letters wont help you 

 

 

 

 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99790 Answers
8147 Consultations

Q. File for maintenance separately for kids so that there expenses are taken care of , also In 125 crpc seek maintenance and legal expenses.

2. See for kids you won't loose in your case husband then can defence that you deserted him even after RCR you are not staying with him.

3. See son can claim from ancestral property though in life of father he or anyone else has no right on his self acquired property.

4. No right of you or your son in the said house.

5. See since your case is running from 6 years it must be at final stage though you can seek maintenance it won't effect the main matter.

6. You can seek help from the legal Aid committee at the district for free legal help.

7. See you can file a complaint before womens commission it may help you.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
25513 Answers
179 Consultations

Non earning status of husband no reason to deny maintenance. Your case is poorly represented, non appearance  of husband dose not affect your claim. Court grants interim maintenance within a month.

Change your lawyer. Wife refusal to honor RCR order dose not impact her calm of maintenance.

Court can order residence right and he already won RCR, join him. You will get space in house. Wife is entitle to maintenance from date of filling application. Change your lawyer.

Court will order lump sum from date till today and regular per month.

Matter in court, no help.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
23082 Answers
31 Consultations

You can seek backdated maintenance from domestic violence Act and 125 crpc.You can seek legal aid at jaunpur court to seek assistance where you dont have to personally appear in jaunpur. Dv is very active in receiving maintenance. from husband

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
34526 Answers
249 Consultations

Hello,

First change your lawyer. You will get maintenance in the situation you have stated.

Regards

Swarupananda Neogi
Advocate, Kolkata
2993 Answers
6 Consultations

Apply for all certified copies of your case , i mean all orders file an appeal in high court along with this judgement tagged: 

 

IN THE HIGH COURT OF DELHI

Mat. App. (F.C.) 53/2014 and CM No. 7929 of 2014

Decided On: 15.10.2014

Appellants: Nidhi Banga
Vs.
Respondent: Mohinder Bir Singh


Hon'ble Judges/Coram:Gita Mittal and J.R. Midha, JJ.

 

1. None appears for the respondent. We have heard learned Counsel for the appellant and perused the record. By way of the present appeal the appellant laid a challenge to the order dated 22nd March, 2013 whereby the Family Court directed the appellant to file her written statement without adjudication of her application for grant of maintenance and litigation expenses under Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1956.

2. The appellant has contended that the same is contrary to the settled principles of law and has placed reliance on the pronouncement of this Court reported at MANU/DE/3644/2013 : 204 (2013) DLT 454, Pramod Saigal v. Amrita Singh; MANU/DE/0666/2005 : 120 (2005) DLT 426, Gaurav Sondhi v. Diya Sondhi; MANU/DE/1238/2009 : II (2009) DMC 26, Rajeev Preenja v. Sarika and Ors. as well as Bombay High Court reported at MANU/MH/1642/2009 : AIR 2010 Bombay 62, Sau. Vanita Pravin Gaikwad v. Shri Pravin Pundlik Gaikwad in support of his submission. It has been held in these judicial precedents that wife cannot be compelled to file written statement unless the order passed on an application seeking grant of litigation expenses.

3. In this regard we may usefully extract para 10 of Sau. Vanita Pravin Gaikwad v. Shri Pravin Pundlik Gaikwad (supra) which reads thus:

"10. The said section confers a power on the Court in a given case to direct the Petitioner to pay necessary expenses of the proceedings to the respondent on an application being made by the respondent. Such an order can be passed when the Court is satisfied that the respondent does not have independent income. Proviso lays down that if an application for payment of expenses of the proceedings is made, normally the same shall be disposed of within 60 days from the date of service of notice on the wife or the husband, as the case may be. Thus, in a given case where a Petition is filed for divorce or other relief by the husband, if wife does not have income to bear the expenses of the proceedings, she can apply to the trial Court for grant of a reasonable amount for meeting the expenses of the proceedings initiated by the husband. The law mandates that such application shall be decided within a period of 60 days. What follows is that till such application is not decided and till the amount ordered to be paid to the respondent-wife not paid, she is not expected to file written statement. At this juncture, it will be necessary to consider a decision of this in the case of Meena alias Pratibha Deshpande v. Prakash Shriniwas Deshpande, (MANU/MH/0219/1983 : 1983 Mah LJ 821). It will be necessary to refer to what is held by this Court in paragraph 2 of the said decision--

"2. In the entire proceedings excepting para 5 of the trial Court's judgment, it does not appear that there was any consideration bestowed upon the entitlement of such wife to seek maintenance pendente lite and the expenses of the proceedings for which proper application was filed supported by the affidavit as available at Exs. 11 and 12. Without deciding such an application, it is indeed difficult to permit the passing of such ex parte judgment only because the written statement is not filed, particularly when the allegations on the basis of which relief of nullity and divorce are sought are serious enough and, before they are accepted, required sufficient and adequate proof. In such matters, looking to the policy of law it must be observed that the proceedings under Section 24 of the Act have an important bearing with regard to the rights of the defending spouse. Not only the provisions of Section 24 of the Act permit grant of maintenance pendente lite, but also it permits the Court to make an order with regard to necessary expenses of the proceedings. In a given case without provision for the necessary expenses of the proceedings, it would be impracticable to insist upon the defending spouse even to file a written statement. The trial Court, which was moved by filing the application, was bound to decide the application with regard to the maintenance and the expenses. There is thus, obvious failure to follow the provisions of Section 24 of the Act and that should be enough to set aside the judgment under appeal and remit the matter back to the trial Court directing it to consider the application filed at Ex. 11 supported by Ex. 12 and then to proceed with the inquiry in the petition according to law."

4. In view thereof, the order dated 22nd March, 2013 is clearly in the teeth of well settled legal principles. The appellant had sought review of the order dated 22nd March, 2013 which review petition came to be rejected by an order dated 8th of January, 2014. Learned Counsel for the appellant submits that in addition to the dismissal of the review petition the Court has imposed costs of Rs. 5,000/-.

5. The order dated 22nd March, 2013 was clearly contrary to law which was a reason sufficient meriting review thereof. The finding of the learned Family Judge to the effect that there was no mistake or error on the face of the record as well as that there is no sufficient reason for review is, therefore, wholly erroneous. In view of the above, the order dated 22nd March, 2013 as well as the order dated 8th January, 2014 are hereby set aside and quashed.

The appeal is allowed in the above terms.

Aveek Bose
Advocate, Kolkata
1222 Answers
9 Consultations

1. As per Supreme Court, A wife is not a "chattel" or an "object" and she cannot be forced to reside with her husband even if the man desires to live with her.

- Further, you are not bond to appear before the RCR case filed by your husband . 

- Since, you are facing financial hardship, then you should move an application before the court in Jaunpur, for dismissing the case , on the ground of your inability of appearance, and also life threatening.

2. No, He is bound to give maintenance for you and your kids.RCR is not a ground to deny the maintenance 

3. Yes, but there should not be any para/clause in the mutual divorce petition like , The son in the custody of woman will not have any share in the property after divorce" 

4. As per law , you  cannot claim any share in the husbands property during his life time, even after divorce, but your kid can claim the same.

5. I think you/lawyer are not contesting your case perfectly, otherwise within 3 months of time maximum , interim maintenance should be allowed. 

- As. per law, court is bound to allow maintenance to the wife and kids, if they are not having sufficient income for their maintenance , and also even the husband claims for no income.

6. Yes, you can engage a lawyer from the legal cell of the same court. 

- Better to move an application before the same court for the same , after showing your financial hardship.

7. No need , just do the needful as i mentioned above . You will not get any response from the them easily. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
15814 Answers
242 Consultations

1. If you dont have money to fight your legal cases, then you may take the help from district legal services authority for free legal aid.

2. In the exparte RCR, whether the same is executed or not you can claim maintenance

3. Your son has no rights in his father's self acquired property.

4. Your son or you cannot claim any rights in the property belonging to your husband's father nor you can claim any share in your husband's property as a right.

5. You have to fight for it, what is your advocate doing without able to get you maintenance order.

6. You can take free legal aid

7. You cannot fetch any benefits by doing such actions proposed by you.

 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
89992 Answers
2495 Consultations

No court can compel a person to live with his spouse. However, if a spouse refuses to rejoin the company even after an order under section 9, then the decree holder has a good ground for seeking divorce after one year of the decree. but still you can claim maintenance under 125crpc.

you can file transfer petition before SC. 

you can get free legal aid in your state. These legal services have lawyers who work pro bono, meaning "for the public good", or without charge.

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
19325 Answers
32 Consultations

You should file application for restoration of RCR petition because it was decided Ex-parte against you. And present your defence in that case if restoration is not possible then you should file appeal in High court. 

Yes you can lose maintenance for yourself of RCR after execution but your daughter can file separate case for maintenance against her father through you. 

Yes your children can claim share from ancestral property of your husband. 

No you should not forget about maintenance you should try to reopen RCR petition of husband and try to get it decided in your favour. 

If you don't have money to contest the case then you can make application in legal cell for free legal aid counsel for your. 

Mohit Kapoor
Advocate, Rohtak
10686 Answers
7 Consultations

Dear Madam,

There are several enactments in favor of married women.  You must show heat of the litigation to your husband  otherwise you cannot sustain in such unbearable atmosphere.  You can file Domestic Violence case.

file Domestic Violence case seeking following reliefs:

 

PRAYER

                HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS

  1. to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
  2. Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
  3. Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
  4. Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
  5. Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
  6. Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
  7. The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
  8. That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.

Netravathi Kalaskar
Advocate, Bengaluru
4951 Answers
27 Consultations

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