• Girlfriend relationship, she is being suicidal!

1 year agao, one girl requested me on FB, we became good friends, then we talked bout relationship and posssiblity of mairrage, I asked my parents, they met her and didn't approved. My parents decision was everything for me.
But was unable to handle my friend as she started being suicidal, and she also tried to commit that, I got scared and promised her that I will be with her no matter what.
Now, still we are not happy, she says that I am not her type, and I will leave her she can again be suicidal.
I don't know what to do! Even I agree to whatever she say's She sill gets angry!
I am in very difficult situation so is she!
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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12 Answers

See inform her parents and file a police complaint for intimidation of suicide and break the relation if you are not happy.

Further in case there is no physical relationship on promise of marriage she cannot file any case against you.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
25513 Answers
179 Consultations

Don't get blackmailed by her tactics. Leave her and engage a lawyer who will give a notice to the concerned police station along with recordings of her stating that she will commit suicide.

Regards 

Rahul Mishra
Advocate, Lucknow
14114 Answers
65 Consultations

You need to sort this peacefully. If you complaint to police it can get worst. If still it's not resolved by your efforts you need to file a complaint with police

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
34738 Answers
251 Consultations

Did you have any physical relationship with her under promise of marriage kindly clarify 

 

2) if you had sex with her under promise of marriage and you break off then case of rape canbe filed against you 

 

3) you can file NC with the local police station about girl constant threats to commit suicide 

 

4) consult a psychiatrist as your girlfriend may need treatment for her illness 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
100073 Answers
8172 Consultations

You have nothing to do. Try to console her. Legally you are not liable any way for emotional breakdown in someone. Help her in all possible way. 

Kallol Majumdar
Advocate, Kolkata
2837 Answers
14 Consultations

1. If you want to walk out of the relationship you are free to do so.

2. Since you apprehend implication in a false criminal case at her behest you should send a complaint in writing against her to the jurisdictional police station. This may help you to obtain bail if subsequently a FIR is registered against you.

Ashish Davessar
Advocate, Jaipur
30843 Answers
982 Consultations

Dear sir,

Attempt to suicide is also an offense if she commits such offense in future then simple hand over her to the police and ask them to book a case. Even now on her threats of black  mailings and your recordings police can book a case. Just threaten her through police.

 

I can completely understand the stress and trauma that you are undergoing. It appears that she is mentally upset over breaking up with you and feels emotionally insecure and vulnerable. At first, you should consider taking her for psychiatric treatment. At the same time, in order to protect yourself and your family I think you should consider filing a complaint with the local police authorities. You should also consider informing the State and the National Commission for Women that you are going through this. This preemptive action may protect you from suffering any harm in the future in case she takes any step. We can help you and your family draft the complaints and also help you file the complaint.

Netravathi Kalaskar
Advocate, Bengaluru
4951 Answers
27 Consultations

Dear Client,

As per facts, both of you should go to a psychiatric.

 

You may call me through KAANOON for more detail.

Mukesh Kumar
Advocate, Jaipur
92 Answers

In this event I advice you to Inform local SHO of the P.S . and inform him through an application stating that this girl is having suicidal tendencies and you should not be held responsible in case such a thing happens. Inform the same to her parents and also to make her to attend counselling.

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
19388 Answers
32 Consultations

You can file FIR in the nearest Police Station that you are under this forced relationship only because of suicidal tendency of your girl friend. This is a clear case of blackmailing.

 

File an FIR that you do not want to continue the relationship and in case anything happens the she will be solely liable for the same because committing suicide itself is an criminal offence.

Aman Shrotriya
Advocate, Rajkot
21 Answers

There is no legal solution for this.

If she is threatening you with suicidal attempts then you may lodge a criminal complaint against her for this and seek protection.

Did you have any physical contact with her, if not then you need not worry.

You can even send a legal notice to her stating that you do not want to marry her because of her such behavior and character even though she was introduced to you through a matrimonial site or some social medial network.

It would be better that you listen to the advise of yor parents and get rid of her because you may have to live with her in fear through out your married life 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
90273 Answers
2510 Consultations

  1. As per the information mentioned in the present query, makes it clear that you have been carrying this relation because of her suicidal nature.
  2. But, you need to understand that even if you get married to her then also there is no surety that she won’t be doing the same after every small issue in marital life.
  3. So, would suggest you to face Now the consequences and come out of the relation.
  4. By saying consequences, I meant to say that she might even file false police complainant against you as you have promised to marry her (only if you would have got intimated).
  5. And try to save some messages in which you have made yourself very clear or she would be talking about the suicidal attempt.

Sanjay Baniwal
Advocate, South Delhi
5477 Answers
13 Consultations

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