- On 9th July, before women's cell, you must give a truthful account of what you are going through.
- Women's cell is an attempt to save your marriage. If it fails, then they may convert your complaint into 498A case. If not, you must file a DV case.
- I fail to see why you want to be in this abusive marriage? You have stated it is for the sake of your daughter; but you aren't doing any favors upon your daughter by being in such an abusive marriage.
- It's in best interest, not just of you but also your daughter, that you end this marriage by petitioning for divorce and seeking full custody and guardianship of your daughter.
- I'm prepared to be your advocate in these matters. I need an exhaustive consultation session with you first. I'm based in Navi Mumbai/Mumbai, just as you are; so it shouldn't be much difficult to pay a visit to consult me.
498, DV, cheating, fraud
1. Hv given application in belapur women cell for domestic violence... Next date is 9th july for giving stmnt Wat to say Kindly tell me what is the procedure n time taken 2. After giving application shud i File fir DV rcr 125crpc n watelse Husband wants divorce but i dont cos of our 8 year old daughter He wants to divorce bcos enjoys others company rome free from responsibility Dis is d main reason but is instigating n tking my videos wen i burst n wants to prove me mentally ill 3. His wanted photo hd cum in newspaper bcos of non repayment of loan Family takes crop loan for personal use n waits for mafinama from govt Hs made me bankrupt family robbed my money n amt not pd pending to pay Wat can i do in dis 4. While getting married ws hindu origin Buddhist, but now strictly follow Buddhism to torture Till today is torturing emotionally economically mentally Physically has stopped Daughter getting affected very badly psychologically physically emotionally mentally bcos he shouts n fites unnecessarily even beats her Outside the hse he is dear n lovable father n in hse he is opposite Dual faced personality Uses fukat havrat n hurting deteriorating words I hd tkn care of marriage his n mine n even clothes for all h8s family members expenses, renovating his hse buying furniture paid elec bill done expenses to start family utensils gas etc Filed 504 n 506 nc today Pls guide me wat to do further stepwise so tht such kind of husband do not torture wife My email address is [deleted]
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
16 Answers
You can file DV case against husband seek protection order, alternative accommodation, maintenance and compensation for mental torture undergone by you
You can file application for maintenance under section 125 cr pc
if you don’t want divorce file RCR petition
also file dowry harassment case against your husband and in laws
Better file police complain u/s 498a, 406 IPC. Sec 504 n 506 will not recover the amount. Hope you must be having proof of expanses incurred by you on him and family.
File maintenance case, can be file anytime - Application will also be file under Protection of Women from DV act for maintenance, protection orders, residence order and you can also demand compensation in the act.
Respected mam...
- You just have to tell all the things which occures in the course of domestic violence plz do remember the date and time and mention it there...
- if he gets agree to be with you then it's okk else file all the application such as u/s 125 crpc, section 12 D. V, section 3,4 Dowry prohibition act along with FIR under section 498-A of ipc
- Just make it clear and mentioned your appropriate money in your statement
- Mam just make your mind clear and then take descsion if you will have to procede them strike him hard legally
Thank you
Dear Madam,
There are several enactments in favor of married women. You must show heat of the litigation to your husband and mother in law otherwise you cannot sustain in such unbearable atmosphere. You can file Domestic Violence case.
file Domestic Violence case seeking following reliefs:
PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
- to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
- Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
- Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
- Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
- Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
- Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
- The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
- That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.
You can go ahead with FIR under 498, domestic violence, 125 crpc. You will get justice
after taking your statement police summoned your husband and police would take your husband statement.
you can file 125crpc maintenance, if you don't want divorce then you can file section 9 RCR..
Do not file NC. File a FIR against the husband also under other sections like 498A etc and ask the police to take stern and immediate action.
Regards
1. If you have given complaint then give a statement based on the complaint narrating the incidences that happened to you.
2. It is your decision to file all the cases to torture him or to restrict with one case alone.
3. You can lodge dowry harassment complaint agaisnt him and ask for compensation of your money in the DV case.
4. For all such further issues you can discuss with your advocate and initiate steps accordingly.
The procedure after complaint is that Police will record your statement and take further action accordingly.
Yes you should file DV , 125 CrPC and RCR simultaneously to pressurise your husband to take you back.
He can't proof your mental state by few videos
You can claim compensation in DV case for all the cruelty he has done against you by taking all your money
Had gone to belapur women cell Counsellor did counselling... I Was telling her about the physical and mental torture not tking care of me n my expenses(did not still tell her about assault planned for adoption was feeling like committing suicide bcos of torture hiding fud snacks not tking on tour and other)... She askd y fites r happening... I sd bcos he wants to socialise hv fun go on trips wid other girls be free from responsibility Den she askd him he sd bcos i m suspicious and other things like tking care of his mom giving expenses, spks bad n foul language abt him n his family members and wants divorce She counselled me by saying not ti be suspicious n trust husband... Took brk and sd der r many application After brk askd wat do u want to do... I sd want to give one more chance by staying together n husband not raising hand not using foul n deteriorating words treat wid respect n value Wen askd huband sd shud not stop him from calling or giving exp to mom(which he already does) not use foul language n not interfere in office work n trips Officers were saying der is nothing wrong in seeing porn videos i cannot intefere in his office life, where he got encouraged I didnot agree to last condition of office n sd want to file a case cos tht is wat he has been doing n bcos of which we r here On which he sd den i will move out of the hse let her stay wid daughter... Again running away from responsibility which i didnt want n changed to compromise. After moving out of the office husband imm telling me he will socialise planning for international trips n office picnics Sirs n madams i totally understand i m suspicious but the reason is his behaviour 1) Shud i write letter to commissioner for second stmnt n encouragement given by counsellors to husband??? 2) kindly help me step by step wat can n shud i do next Now he is behaving gud but back of his mind u all also know he has a plan Hv i messed Is that statement important
Asked 6 years ago
wait for some time
2) if husband behaviour does not change you can file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
4) best option is divorce by mutual consent
5) no need to write to commissioner of police against counsellor
6) the objective is to help in reconciliation between parties
Why going for counseling, file direct FIR, counseling provision over ruled by SC. Police will recover your articles.
If police not taking FIR, complain to commissioner.
And file maintenance petition in court. Court will order interim maintenance within a month.
AM not Getting this --> did not still tell her about assault planned for adoption was feeling like committing suicide bcos of torture hiding fud snacks not tking on tour and other).
What ADOPTION , whom to adopt ?
You can settle the same if you want or proceed as advised
1. yes you should write a letter.
Yo may write a letter at this juncture and do nothing more
1. You will not get any remedy from commissioner, he will again send the matter to the same counselor and the same reply will be heard from them.
2. You can utilize the compromise settlement or if you think of fighting back then you may have undergo strenuous issues including fatigue that you will experience once you start attending the court on hearing dates.