My husband says that he has only right on my self earned money
I am working as a government employee and my husband working in a private company on senior most position. we are getting married before 4 months. before marriage I cleared with him that due to my father's health illness and my brother preparing for government job he is working half time in readymade shop so I want to give 7000 rupees per month from my self earned salary as financial support at the time he was agree with it. now from last two months he said that if you are giving money to your parents like this than I don't want to be in this relationship because I have only right on your self earned money, without my permission you can't spend a single penny from it. he also said to my mother that how can you take money from my wife I only have right to take his money. because of My this government job before 3 months I got transferred from Rajkot to Bhavnagar. for this reason we have to be separate from my father in law. every time he says me that as daughter-in-law it is your responsibility to do all the routine home works if you are can't able to do somebof that work due to your job that is your problem. before sometime I asked him 2 contribute in our home expenses he replied me that just because of your job transfer we are here now I have responsibility of two homes we are here for your job so you have to maintain expenses of this house. if you are staying with me at Rajkot my father's home, we don't need to do this extra expenses and if you are not able to do that expenses resign your government job and let back to Rajkot. at there I can manage all the expenses. if you want my contributionvthan you have to give all your self earned money on my hand, otherwise you have to manage all expenses of this house after so much communication now he gives 5000 rupees 4 this house expenses and all other expenses after that 5000 that on Me... at there our home rent is 4800... all other expenses like routine food milk bills etc. Mostly paid by me.... but I agree with it... now every time he threaten me that if I spend single penny without his permission he take me to court... and when I say that if you are having right on myself earned income then I also have right to your self earned income, but he refused it by saying that just because you are earning you don't have any right on my self earned income. I have right to spend that only by my decisions.... my father in law and mother in law Saying same as my husbund...
Asked 5 months ago in Family Law from Jamnagar, Gujarat
As I'm earning 30k per month, my husbuns says that you are earning much enough for our household expanses and ur personal expanses As per law I'm not responsible to give you single penny for our home routine expanses not even half expanse also(he is earning 40k per month).... Just b'coz I'm earning he can refuse to give money for our house hold expanses?? Is it true by law??
Asked 3 months ago