A case of abusive wife having borderline personality disorder. File a complaint in the name of your mother against her that she assaulted her. File a case of cruelty and incompatibility against her.
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I am Bisexual guy, Was engaged to a girl in March 2019 since then i used to think if i would spoil her life because i had a boyfrnd too. Later in July i met her with one of my frnd and told abt my sexual orientation and abt my boyfrnd and let her decide if she wanted to get married or not. But she said she can't call off the marriage as her elder sister is also seperated from her marriage. She let me beleived that there is no problem and after marriage evrything will be okay. I Had a girlfriend in past too and never had any issue in terms of sexual intercourse. We got married in Nov 2019 and rite after one month she first started fighting saying i don't love her and stuff like that. In Jan 2019 when i was sleeping one night she captured my phone and laptop and called her parents and told them evrything and made a story that she got to knw abt me after marriage and telling them that she is still virgin but that was not correct. She and her family started torturing me and started abusing me that and asked my parents to write in stamp paper that property under my name will be my wifes if i don't treat her like wife. Her parents asked me to leave job and take her to my hometown (all planned by inlaws) but before that my father installed CCTV evrywhere and then she was not able to do things which she was doing earlier like fighting .. torturing me and my family abusing . But that was for a moment she destoyed CCTV one day (we have footage) and then caled police telling them we beat her and torture her .. One day she tried to commit suicide(fake) and told police that we forcefuly poised her and then but police knew wht she was trying to do. She is at her home town now and now filed a complain that i am gay and i can't do sex without medicines and asked for 10Lacs plus a fortuner and used beat her and did not let her ear or drink and things like that... I am not really sure wht do as we have to to go this 20th as we received a call from police station. Please Advise
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A case of abusive wife having borderline personality disorder. File a complaint in the name of your mother against her that she assaulted her. File a case of cruelty and incompatibility against her.
Regards
If you have received call from women's cell than first you need to check whether police has registered FIR u/s 498a or just taken NC.
Usually they take NC and call groom side people for talk whether whatsoever girl has telling or complaining is correct or do you have any other issue and gives warning to boy's and his family not to act like that.
If the compromise is not happened on 20th the same NC will turn into FIR than you need to take bail from court whom so ever name is appearing from your side of family members.
See as you are called by police the FIR may not be registered it is at complaint stage see you can deny her allegation can present proof as she destroying the camera , abusing or threatening you also try out for settlement if compromise is reached and she is ready for either coming back nicely or for mutual divorce.
The complaint can be contested based on the allegations in the complaint.
Hi,
It is definite that she is not having the original records or proof of your bisexual activities and in these circumstances, you are suggested to completely erase/delete the proof ASAP. Further attend the police call, mediation or counseling and deny all her allegations. Do submit the proof of her past wrong doings and prove that her complaint is false. Do also mention that her family is habitual of filing false cases against son in laws (citing case of her elder sister). At the same time, you are suggested to file complaint against her and her parents for filing false complaints, black mailing and extortion of property.
You should appear before police station and cooperate with investigations
2) deny allegations that you are a gay
3) take plea that marriage is consummated
4) mention that you want reconciliation and not separation
5) that wife abuses you and your family , destroyed cctv cameras in house
Dear Sir,
- No need to be worried as it is just normal practice of women cell to call both the parties for compromise. FIR at initial level is not recommended by police itself.
- Deny all the allegations and no need to carry of share any evidence at initial stage.
- Generally police gives 2-3 sitting for compromise and if same doesn't happens FIR is registered and for same bail can be obtained.
- Being gay is not illegal, hence no need to worry on this part.
Regards
Vivek Arya
Sir, I told her about me and my boyfriend (Married) earlier but have no proof of that. She has proof as she captured my phone and her brother accessed my gmail and have whts app chat and pictures and that is the reason they started blackmailing (30lacs) me and my bf first and when we denied for money she told evrything to our families. My bf's wife now know abt it but she is still with him. She got it all planned since i told her abt it and yes her sister tried to kill her husband (info from sister's inlaws) and this what she tried to do once because they forced me to write on stamp paper if i commit suicide i will be held responsible. She and her family planned everything really nicely. I do not want to live with her and i am afraid if say that i do not want to separated she will come back and haunt us all again. Me and my family does not want to keep her. We have a phone recording of her mother and sister talking to her that "pehle mera case nipat jane de and fir inhe fasaynge) they played very smartly as her elder sister stayed only 6-7 mnths in husbands home and its been 5 years of their marriage they recently got mutually divorced so that her in laws cannot say anything related to her and now they are bound not to speak anything. I think i will be arrested of being bisexual and put behind the bars. Really don't how to defend myself and my family. She also said that to evryone that i do unnatural sex with her because i am gay and have no interest in Vagina. I feel sometimes i have no option left rather thaj dying and make her happy. I cannot live with her a moment as i am so done with her, there is no scope of reconcilation. Sir please suggest me what should i say in CAW. She is just misusing the laws as she has proof of my bisexuality which i cannot deny anyhow. She is asking for 15 lacs which we agreed but only after divoce we said as its only been 6mnths of marriage. But they want money before divorce which we denied as they are not trustworthy at all. HELP!
Dear Sir,
- You can mention all these points at the time of counselling at police station, however there are many points need to be considered what to mention or not.
- At the end case will go to court only. Police in mediation can not impose any self condition.
- If needed you can accompanied with any local lawyer to help and guide you at police station.
Regards
Vivek Arya
Hi,
You are afraid because you are true and going on true lines. She is bold because she planned everything to torture you and extract money from you. You are suggested to be bold and get ready to cut/falsify all her allegations. Once they don't have original proof, they will not be able to prove their allegations. Go to police station with some one close and very supportive to you. Turn the face of allegations and then see their plan failing. For example, if she is telling that you are bisexual and putting your email or WhatsApp, say that you never did so and it was she, who had open or unrestricted access to your phone or laptop including id and password and she did all those communication falsely only under planned conspiracy to harass you and extort money. Also talk to your friend to deny any sort of relationship between you and him and let him file defamation complaint against her and her brother for stealing his password and do the non sense without his consent or knowledge. You will find that they will be left unanswered and their face will turn unexpectedly. All the things depend on your boldness and courage to face their ugly plan. At the same time, go for negotiations also and allege that due to her criminal and cruel behavior, you are not in mind to resettle with her. Go for minimum amount and pay only on part and not as lump sump. Pay partly at both the motions of mutual consent divorce.
1. In CAW you must state what is true in your life happened so far. Since you are not at fault there is nothing to hide about.
2. If she is agreeing for mutual divorce then go for it . However the money agreed to be paid is to be paid in two installments , one at the time of signing of the petition and remaining on the final date of eharing.
1) being bisexual is not an offence
2) don’t pay any money before filing for divorce
3) no need to bow down to blackmail tactics
try to settle the matter amicably with your wife involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
as marriage is only six months old, therefore, MCD will be filed after 7-8 months at least, so till then stay separate from her,
if failed, you have two options,
one option is to,
file contested divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty, but it will take around 4-6 years to dispose of,
also once you file contested divorce she will surely file/claim
498a complain,
Domestic Violence case,
maintenance,
so be ready for them too,
and,
the second option is to file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court, to show your bonafide intentions to save the matrimonial tie, however, you can withdraw the same any time,
RCR will work as a safeguard to 498a, maintenance, DV, etc
Call/mail for a detailed discussion/understanding
during CAW meeting suggest for a MCD with option of 50% payment on first motion and balance on second motion
Hi
No one can be put behind the bars on the basis of his/her sexual orientation. So leave that matter.
Be strong be bold go there in CAW and simply give them and show them the proofs of your favour and tell that you dnt want to continue your marriage with her. Show them the recording of her sister and mother and get an FIR registered against them for making a criminal conspiracy.
Thank You
Don't give divorce and money as well. As her to go in family court and tell her that all are false allegations she had put on you.
You do not say anything about your bf and marriage plus guy etc. Stick to word you don't know any bf and what she is talking is all false.
Kindly call me via consultation call will explain you what to speak at CAW on 20th.
Hi, there is nothing she can do as she does not have any evidence for dowry demand ..It is advisable to go on 20th and join the investigation with police ..Also file a RCR petition in court
See being bisexual or having unnatural sex as they call it is no offence in india the 377 ipc is scrapped therefore you don't have to worry from this end, you cannot be arrested for sexual orientation.
Further present copy of such recording of her sister and mother along with any other proof you have before IO.
Also see if they are ready to settle asl them to make a mutual divorce memorandum take complaint back and give amount in stages some amount before divorce and the rest amount after consent for divorce is given.
Since she has made a complaint before police on ths, you can clearly inform the police about your character and inform the police that she was already informed about it before marriage however it was she who insisted in proceeding with the proposed marriage.
Actually she cannot make a complaint to police on your character i.e., gay, the police cannot take any action on it, she has remedy only through court of law, if at all she want to file petition to annul the marriage for this reason, she can proceed, whereas her intention is to grab money from you by exploiting you.
You may better discuss with your advocate and be accompanied by your advocate to the police station to handle the situation better in the police station.
Dont give her any money.
Bisexual or anything of the sort is not illegal.
Supreme court has given a clear verdict ion it stating that it is the choice of individual hence there is no illegality in it.
Therefore police cannot take any action on her complaint on this ground.
If you do not want to live with her anymore, then you first file a judicial separation case against her and afterwards your can file a divorce case.
You may discuss at length with your advocate on this and take a decision.
Dear sir,
This is a frivolous complaint. Since, you have not done any type of torture with her and you made everything clear about that prior to your marriage. You dont need to worry. We will be taking care of it during her evidence before the court.
This is a frivolous complaint against you and we can efficiently defend it before the court.
You can contact me for consultation. If any.
Regards,
Yuganshu sharma
Advocate
Delhi high court
settle dispute amicably through an mediator and file for mutual consent divorce.
You should first of all engage a lawyer. Let him do the talking. He will talk to your inlaws and wife. You should block them and make no contact with them.
Secondly homosexuality is not a crime anymore. Don't be afraid. Even if it is accepted for arguments sake that you didn't tell her about yourself...still she can take divorce....rather annul the marriage.
Why isn't she doing that? As she is interested in your property money.
Therefore in front of the CAW state what is correct and true.
Regards
Dear Client
You should just deny all her allegations which she is levelling against you to defend yourself from her blackmailing.
And tell police that you are ready to undergo any type of test to prove my sex drive to prove that her allegations are false. Also tell everything about her sister to police and also tell them that it's there profession to blackmail and harass the persons who make relation with them.