Dear All,
Myself and my ex-husband had a mutual consent divorce legally. In final order it has been mentioned that my daughter will be under mother custody.Daughter 9 yrs old.
I am remarried since 1 year. Now as my ex- husband is going to remarry he want to give adoption his daughter to my husband. As my husband is also willing to adopt the child.
As my ex- husband is going to get engaged in may 10 -2015. He wants to finish the settlement and adoption before may 10 th 2015.He is willing to register his few assets in name of the daughter.
As i asked him to proceed both the adoption and settlement process thro court.
He s telling as time is very short he will register the adoption and settlement process in register office.
My question is...
1. If at all adoption is done thro register mode, will this adoption will speak in passport office, birth certificate to change the initial of my daughter.( in place of father 's initial, to change it to step father's initial)
2. Whether register adoption process holds the value when compared to the court order.
3. Ex-husband is wiiling to register his few properties in name of the daughter. while registering should i register as A.Lalitha or N.Lalitha. whereas A stands for Ex-husband name and N stands for my husband name.
4. First adoption shud takes place or settlement shuld takes place.
5.If adoption is going to take thro court howlong it will take, as my ex-husband lawyer said it takes minimum 4 months to finsh the adoption thro court.
Kindly respond to my all queries as i am not clear and satisfied with the adoption thro registration method as i feel it doesnt worth it. If i am wrong please clarify.
Thank u all, waiting for ur valuable reply .
Asked 9 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thank u all for ur reply,
1.Today my Ex- husband informed me that his lawyer said, like that as per indian and hindu law there should be a age difference of 21 years for the adoptive father and child.
Child date of birth 30.06.2005 (9 years 10 months) as of now.
Adoptive father Date of birth 13.08.1984 (30 years 9 months) as of now.
Difference between adoptive father and adoptivechild is 20 yrs and 10 months.
could u plz clarify my below questions.
1. Due to this age difference it is not all possible to adopt a child for the adoptive father ?
2. If its true.. what is the solution to adopt the child?
3. In this case, as per the final order girlchild is under natural mother custody, as natural mother has been remarried, how natural father can give adoption to adoptive father and natural mother ?( As natural mother possess allrights on her child as per the court order)
4. My ex husband lawyer prepared a draft like..
a.) first part is Adoptvive father and natural mother.
b.) Second part is ex-husband and natural mother.
whreas second part is adopting a girl child to the first part. and second part will loose all their rights pertained to the girl child.
How this is possible as natural mother is coming under first part as well as second part.
Kindly clarify my doubts.
Asked 9 years ago