Wife runs away to maternal family and threatens to commit suicide
Wife runs away to maternal family and threatens to commit suicide.
My wife keeps on threatening me for committing suicide. Reason is petty; She does not want to take responsibilities of family tasks. All she wants is to gossip with neighbors and take rest. My income is limited and she belongs to an affluent family.
Mine was a arranged marriage
We have two kids and are married since 2008. Now, my parents are old and I want to keep them with me but she is against this and keeps on playing tantrums so that I cannot bring my parents to stay with me. My father is 70 yrs and mother is 65 yrs old. She has has undergone angioplasty and is suffering from type 2 diabetes.
This time I brought my parents to stay with me against her wishes as they are living alone in my hometown on their own. Since, then she is blaming them of abusing her, conspiring against her. When I tried to mediate to understand what the problem is, she want them out of the house. So, I had to stood by my parents. She tried to threaten me to commit suicide and frame me and my parents for this. I then spoke to her parents but they took her side and later said will talk to her.
Then on 22.01.2019, surprisingly her brother shown up at my door to take her back to her home. I asked her why is she doing it, then her brother said he is taking her for 10 days to home so that she will feel relaxed and return back. But I was shocked to see that she left her kids behind to stay with me. Later, I realized that she has taken away all the jewellery, her clothes and the Fixed Deposits, NSCs and the LICs held by me and jointly by us.
Last week I received a call from my in-laws about my decision to choose between my wife and my parents, so I chose both to which they asked me to wait for legal actions and threatened me to charge for domestic violence. Please help me as my wife is mentally stable and want to falsely accuse me for domestic violence and dowry demands.
I approached local police station for help but they shoo me away and made fun of me by saying no one can help you. Said will always take side of my wife whether she is right or wrong.
Asked 5 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Muslim
Thank you sir for replying to my query. I have following questions:
1. Please provide guiding words for message to be sent as she and her father are adamant in their stand that she will return only when I will send my parents back to my home town. They are blaming me and my parents for mental torture and mental abuse. Both of them can barely walk leave aside torturing someone.
2. I visited the local police station for reporting of missing jewellery and financial documents, the station in-charge refused to file report or make note of my case. Made fun of me at the police station.
3. Divorce is the last thing in my mind due to our young kids. But what is worrying me is falsely blaming me and my parents if in case she commits suicide. Or her family charges me for dowry demands as I have never demanded for such things. I am ready to return whatever she has brought from her family but stop accusing me and my family for such things we have never done.
Asked 5 years ago
