By virtue of bye laws 38(e) (ix) the society has every right to collect transfer premium but only on sale transactions . Sinec the transfer is within family member as per bye laws definition society is wrong.
Now.. the society transfer charges was paid in the year 1993. The claim is being made now. The defence that can be raised by the society is that the erstwhile office bearers of the society were responsible .. who are no more now..
Further the claim is barred by limitation. The aggreived person ought to have challenged it within three years from the date of making payment to the society .
Dispute being raise by the son after a span of 25 years is too belated to raise their claim.
Nobody can calim ignornace of princilesbof bye laws saying that they were not aware earlier or bye laws ... As the saying goes ..ignorance of law is not an excuse ..
Since pyement of maintenance xahrges is not being done... Lay your claim ...issue a reminder and file application before Dy registrar or co operative societies