Physical relationship with consent and without any promise for marriage
I contacted a girl through matrimony site. On sharing contact details, we met first at her town. One thing led to another and we started making out on her building's terrace. Since then we met and were in a physical relationship. I did not ever promise for marriage or never said that I love her and it went on for few months. Now things got sour, she expressed that she is deeply in love with me and wants to get married. When I offered resistance, she came barging at my home where I stay alone and was forcing herself on me. I had to lay hands on her to calm her down.
Now she is threatening me or rather already in process of filing a complaint against me.
I Have all whatsapp communication with her stating the above incident in brief.
Kindly advise my next move. Have I committed a crime under law?
Asked 4 years ago in Family Law
I tried to calm her down. Rather messaged her that fine lets talk for some time and how thing goes. Also met her couple of times in a mall/outside. A casual meet. Did this to try and avoid matters getting serious and reaching families. Tried to explain her that i am not interested and explained what might happen if she does ahead with a complaint. She is not budging now and is threatening to play the woman card and has said that she will deny that i never promised of marrying her.
In such case, will our whatsapp conversations/screenshots support me? She has agreed that i never promised her verbally but said that it was "understood in common sense" that since we met on matrimony site, we met for marriage.
Also will laying hands on her put me in problem? That was accidental or maybe i had no other option since she banged my door hundreds of times before i had to finally open the door and confront her.
Asked 4 years ago
As per my conversation with her today, she has already filed a complaint. So i cant play the delay card now. She is saying that I will be forced to marry her now. Is that possible?
Asked 4 years ago
Been long now, She has not filed a police complaint yet but threatening to do it time and again. She has however contacted my family(without telling me and they didnot know about this issue as I did not tell them) and after my parents rejected her, she threatened them that she will make me marry her at any cost. My parents are in stress now.
Now, there is an another thing that happened. When she had started her threats, I asked one of my friend to contact her and tell her that he also saw her profile on a matrimony site (to see what she is really made of) They met and they kissed in the first meeting like in my case. Next time, she went to his flat and indulged in a physical relationship. This was almost 8-9 months back. Now, I have a call recording of them(which was made 2 months back) where she has not literally accepted that she had a physical relationship with him, but kept mum or said 'I don't remember' when asked by him several times 'You know we had sex, right? She said a line to him that 'I did tell you that she ALSO had relationship with me'. She also asked him, that knowing all this, can he marry her? To which he said that he can not answer her unless she answers his question and the call ended with that.
Can this evidence be used by me against her , if she decides to go for a trial?
We also are meeting with a family friend of hers in a couple of days. Shall I expose this proof in front of them and see her guilt or wait for it, to save it for trial as she can refuse that it was her and I created a fake call? I however have told her that I have a proof of it, but haven't mentioned exactly what.
What should be my next step?
Asked 4 years ago