My wife and father-in-law are cheating
Hi everyone ,
I'm a private employee from Hyderabad , married in Feb 2016 Christian marriage
Conditions before marriage - I promise their parents that I would take her to abroad for further education
I fixed for h1b visa but got rejected before marriage and I conveyed the same message to my inlaws but they were still interested and said " you could go anywhere ,we have confidence on you"
They gave 5 lakhs for marriage not as dowry
Post marriage
Everything was fine until one week , later she started thinking about her past , I was so annoyed because of her unhappiness .
I have asked to tell me clearly about her past.
She opened up and said that she had a boy friend for about 5 years , as he is a Hindu her father didn't agree . She was house arrested for 2 years later got married to me.
Her boy friend was ok phone with her one day I was furious and shouted on her .
She never allowed me come close to her , she was in a myth that her bf would come back.
Started checking my messages , recorded my phone conversations which I was unaware about the app that was installed on my phone.honestly I have no affairs .
One day she was on phone while I was moving to my office.
I called her and shouted , she recorded and left the house
Here comes my father in law and threatens me " why did you scold my daughter, I will file case on you" and now he asks me about my visa and phones my relatives tells all narrow minded talk which something like your boy is treating my daughter as a slave blah blah"
I feel there is nothijg strong eveidence for them but still her father and she are threatening me to send to jail
I'm from a very middle class family I have no good political power nor people .
I tried reaching my wife she refused to come back
Her father doesn't know the truth I visited twice but they never allowed me to enter the house
She is now no where no call no address her father says" get your elders and we will talk in a park or a restaurant"
But he never turned up . Now he is threading me when I called him for my wife , he inreturn asks me where my daughter.
It's been closely 2 years she left my house in May .
Don't know what to do , many are calling and threatening me to agree for mutual doubt force and to return their money .
I agree that I was angry in her but I apologised for the mistake , never spoke about her bf with her father .
I'm being so good to her but she is leaving me and her father never turn up for the meeting
I was told to file RCR and cheating case but I donot want to complicate please help
What if I file cheating case?
What if I file RCR?
Please advise
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Christian
Thanks for the response,
Sir I spoke to her until oct 2016 and was begging her to come back , but her father was sending her back in return asking me to get the visa etc and I'm sure she is with her family . But now there is no contact number nothing .
I'm really vexed don't know why these people are torturing me everyday .
I called me father in law today but he was so rude asking me to give mutual divorce and also to return their 5 lakhs money.
I don't know what I did but in anger I shouted on her but still she is claiming false allegations that I'm torturing her . I never hit nor physically tortured .
I got married in Feb 2016 she left the house in May 2016
What if I file a divorce ? Will they file 498 etc on me ?
I'm new to this court and police station their relatives are forcing me to agree for mutual divorce and return their money if not my inlaws will file case etc .. they are telling me very softly to agree but why should be punished like this .
They only got strong eveidence of my anger on phone that's it
These shoutings are very common in everyone's life she just their with me for 2 mo ths . We were about to understand each other . I don't think she is with her boy friend not any illegal affair but she is not willing to stay with me but I need justice to my suffering ! My reputation and I lost one of my parent who suffers severe heart attack because of these people .
Asked 8 years ago
