Stay in grandma house and protection from public
Myself charan is an physically handicapped. of age 27 years, working as an lecturer. I have a question on "Stay in my Grand ma house, & Protection from Public".
My Grand Mother has two sons, & one daughter. She has an property of 120 Sq. Yards of two floor individual house. I am staying with my mother, younger brother in first floor, my father (pedda) staying in second floor alone. Younger son (chinna) living in ground floor, & daughter(baby) living in her own registered house, which is gifted by grand ma.
With neighbors support, We separated him because of his behavior (Drinking, usage of abusive language, beating) & non support in family welfare (food, health, & education). The house on second floor constructed by us, He didn’t take care of our family since 2004 till now, because of his condition on us (me & my brother) to work as an helper under his carpentry works.
In 2006, He beated my mother on her head, she admitted to an hospital, After a repeated acts, In 2012, Again my mother admitted to hospital & left with 16 stitches on her head. There is no stop for his violent attacks. From 2014, We filed a 498(A) case running against him, due to murder attempt on my mother.
In 2004, We taken an amount of 1 lakhs from one of lender for our education with the acceptance of my grand ma & her daughter (baby). Now, it's increased up to 7 lakhs due to interest, & family conditions.
Elder son (pedda,my father) lend money (aprrox.12 lakhs) from people through various weekly & monthly schemes in our nearby streets, He doesn't give any penny to us for sustain.
Now, all the crowd came to our house& make shouting, cursing on us, in the absence of my father. He is having lunch, & dinner in his sister's house.
Grand ma, Pedda, Chinna, baby decided to sale their home, & forcefully vacated us by locking door repeatedly & forcing us to get back their house documents. But we didn't have any shelter, &staying in this house from my childhood(since 1990).& even not having any money (7 lakhs).
I request u all, please suggest me your advises, upon the issue “Stay in my Grand ma house, & Protection from Crowd”.
Thanking you,
Asked 9 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thanks u very much, for ur helpful suggestion on our critical issue..
Due to the force/ attraction of my Grand ma, Pedda, & Baby to the lender of 7 lakhs; Now lender forcing us to repay their amount of 7 lakhs, on an immediate effect, even we are paying 21000/- monthly interest of 3% rate of interest, with nodues date since 2004.
Asked 9 years ago
Thanks u all for your valuable suggestions on this issue. Q3. “To Get an Home Loan by Purchasing house from my Grand Ma, & Repay all the debts of my mother & father”
Now the issue takes a "Y" turn. We didn’t react on this issue, even they locked & forced to vacate from our house. We simply gave a police complaint & One of constable came to our house gave the keys to us, & told among us, if any problem arises/remains among your family members, meet in police station, & don’t make any argument/force to get out from our living house . After that, The Trio (My grand ma, Pedda, Baby) took this issue to our Ward/ Street President Committee.
In the presence of All family members including chinna’s family & except my uncle (Chinna), The Ward/ Street President Committee members firstly asked us to get back the house documents for home sale for total 104 sq.yd Home Sale @ 80 lakhs (govt. rate 20,000/- per sq.yd.), & our site is of length 72 ft, & breadth 15 ft.
We replied them with an idea of “Which is told by one bank Mediator, that is to getting home loan of 20 lakhs from bank to Purchase the house from my grand ma, As it’s in developed area, & repay the 7 lakhs to lender, & 12 lakhs of my father’s chits/ schemes to local people; Because of Getting a mortgage loan for a gifted house gives lesser amount to repay the debts, which may cause scene will repeat. If we resolve all our debts, It will create sympathy, good name from relatives, & public, more over a permanent house to live with family as it’s our marriage age”. & lender will get the house documents to the register office there itself directly, & we will repay them my mother’s debts at the spot by getting home loan amount.
Ward/ Street President Committee asked the same to Grand ma, my father (pedda), Baby. & give 3 Options to solve this issue.
1. Home sale & divide shares of 40%, 40%, 20% to Pedda, Chinna, & Grand ma respectively.
2. Registration of houses separately between both pedda, & chinna according to temporary will.
3. Register for Undivided share between both sons (chinna, pedda). No Partition of house will be there, stay as like before for years. No problem in Getting home loan, or home sale for their individual 50% share. In future, if there is any plan to construct, just left ground floor, make staircase in between two houses one in front, & another in back side. Ground floor, Terrace, Staircase, septic tank all to be shared equally.
Committee suggests Chinna’s wife that, she has two daughters of age 10, 12 years old. There is no need for them to sale their part. & gave two days time to chinna’s family to give their opinion in this matter.
Me, My Mom, & brother discussed among us & preferred 3rd option, because we need money to clear debts, & home both. 1st option is non favour for us, because In this we’ll sell house for 80 lakhs, & after dividing 32,32,16 & clearing debts we’ll left with 13 lakhs only. & no more security to get even that 13 lakhs from my father, because earlier my father got 3 lakh from my grand ma on her retirement. But we didn’t get any penny. Even we have to search for house & to take home loan of min. 7-12 lakhs to purchase a new house. It seems like a bad idea. 2nd option is useless for us, there is no use for us either to take home loan because of no value to first floor for an individual house, or to repay debt & chinna always yelling that they didn’t have any money to construct, also 30x15 ft space left on ground floor with no use.
Finally, decided to take home loan; as my brother working in a MNC company & earning a sum of 30k per month. We are paying an interest of 21000/- to the lender of 7 lakhs, Now the same/>= amount to be paid for monthly installment to banks for an average 25-30 years. Which saves money & home.
My grand ma, & my father (pedda) accepted this, but baby not accepted, & arguing for home sale. Even she has no part in this, but she & her son(29 yrs) is interfering & cursing us regularly, getting buyers for home sale, to get her/ mother’s share by parting 3/4 equal shares (grand ma lives in baby’s house), one for my grand ma, second for my father, third for my uncle( chinna), & fourth for my aunt(baby).
My grand ma wrote a will for the property to be shared after her death. My Grand ma promised to us (all family members) among public that she has no objection in clearing my father’s debts by home sale/ loan. Due to lack of money, & lack of confidence we are keeping us far away from this situation.
According to will, she has an registered property of 104 sq.yd or 86.9sq.ft. & Chinna has to live in ground floor, pedda has to live in first floor, & remaining open area on ground floor, & second floor to be shared equally by both of them. & her daughter (baby) need not to interfere in this house as she got a registered house on her name earlier.
By knowing importance of house, family, & public relations. I’m interested in this idea of getting loan & repay all the debts of my father, & mother. & having a registered house for my brother, & my uncle (chinna). So, there may be no problem arise. (It’s our home, our loan, our headache policy).
In 2004, I joined in Polytechnic College, My brother working for me for 3 years. In 2007, I’m selected in campus for an MNC, & working for 3 years, in that mean while, my brother studied polytechnic & got selected for an MNC, & Since 2011 he started working & continues now. In 2010 I joined in Engg. College & after that I’m also joined for supporting my family. We supported each other for our sustain till now. From 2004, Only my mother carries our burden till date, no one else including my father, or any other family member supported us till date.
We provided house document to the lender of 1 lakh , mother’s, grand ma’s signed with a govt. employee surity on blank paper with revenue stamp, & blank pro note with revenue stamp in 2004. They have another 4 written pro notes signed by my mother only. each note for 1 lakh in next sequential years due to interests, construction of home on 2nd floor, food, education, medical & other expenses for our sustain.
1. Is this idea is workable/not?
2. If yes, how to register for getting a home loan?
3. How to write legal note between our family for acceptance of home loan..?
4. Any future problems arise in this?
If no, how to proceed through law & justice:
5. Injunction order to be put or not? If we file it, what advantage we will get?
6. Already a 498(A) is there, but my father lives in his house, eating in his sister’s house & roam like a normal person.?
7. What about DV case file to put or not? Is it safe to live my mother in our house?
8. What to do on my aunt & her child for her frequent interfere in this issue, cursing, & fighting on us..? My brother working out of state. & I will be at house in night only, due to my works, My mother living alone in our home..? Any legal follow up on my aunt is there?
Asked 9 years ago
I charan I want to tell this on behalf of my mother Ramanamma married with Bora Ramana,in 1987 in the presence of the elders, it’s an arranged marriage. I gave dowry of Rs 6000, tulam gold, gifts etc.,I had two sons, the eldest charan (physically handicapped) born in 1988, and youngest appalaraju in 1990.
My Mother in law Bora appayamma has been worked in Food Corporation of India (FCI, govt. job) from 1975 to 2003. She got the job of My father in law Bora Narasimhulu (late) in legacy after his death. She had two sons, the elder son Ramana (Carpenter), the younger son kanakaraju (auto driver), in between she has a daughter appala narasamma alias baby.
In 1987, our mother in law bought a land of 72 feet length, & 13 feet width of cost 20,000/-. In 1988, constructed ground floor, & first floor in 1990 & left 32 feet open area in backward. From the date of my marriage, she stays with her youngest son(kanaka raju) in ground floor, & me, my husband resides in first floor.
In 1995, Baby left her husband without divorce and came to my mother in law with her children. She bought a tiled house of 40 feet length & 15 feet width. After that she constructed two more floors on that house. Baby had a son, & a daughter there. Both of them had marriages. And had each son, has one daughter. My aunt bears all the costs like marriages, deliveries, monthly ration which is incurred by them.
I Ramanamma (44)and my sons charan(27) ,appalaraju(25) has harassed from my husband and his relatives since 1990.my husband and his relatives does not support my chiidrens education,growth from childhood.my husband has beated me so many times two are major ones which are 16 stictches on my head.Now I want to leave my house and reside in safe place but I also want my house permanently on the name of my children.I want to put a case on my husband and his relatives.Please tell me how to put a case ,what are the cases I have been put and how much cost it will take and how much time it will take to solve the cases.
Asked 8 years ago
I charan I want to tell this on behalf of my mother Ramanamma married with Bora Ramana,in 1987 in the presence of the elders, it’s an arranged marriage. I gave dowry of Rs 6000, tulam gold, gifts etc.,I had two sons, the eldest charan (physically handicapped) born in 1988, and youngest appalaraju in 1990.
My Mother in law Bora appayamma has been worked in Food Corporation of India (FCI, govt. job) from 1975 to 2003. She got the job of My father in law Bora Narasimhulu (late) in legacy after his death. She had two sons, the elder son Ramana (Carpenter), the younger son kanakaraju (auto driver), in between she has a daughter appala narasamma alias baby.
In 1987, our mother in law bought a land of 72 feet length, & 13 feet width of cost 20,000/-. In 1988, constructed ground floor, & first floor in 1990 & left 32 feet open area in backward. From the date of my marriage, she stays with her youngest son(kanaka raju) in ground floor, & me, my husband resides in first floor.
In 1995, Baby left her husband without divorce and came to my mother in law with her children. She bought a tiled house of 40 feet length & 15 feet width. After that she constructed two more floors on that house. Baby had a son, & a daughter there. Both of them had marriages. And had each son, has one daughter. My aunt bears all the costs like marriages, deliveries, monthly ration which is incurred by them.
I Ramanamma (44)and my sons charan(27) ,appalaraju(25) has harassed from my husband and his relatives since 1990.my husband and his relatives does not support my chiidrens education,growth from childhood.my husband has beated me so many times two are major ones which are 16 stictches on my head.Now I want to leave my house and reside in safe place but I also want my house permanently on the name of my children.I want to put a case on my husband and his relatives.Please tell me how to put a dv case and tell me what are the cases I have been put and how much cost it will take and how much time it will take to solve the cases.
if this story is not sufficient pls tell me i have a full story of 11 pages .pls give me suggestions fully because this is my last chance to want free from husband and his relatives.
Asked 8 years ago
my full story written in 5 pages.pleae suggest that how much amount you will take for giving step by step suggestions because i have a severe torture from my children childhood. ramanamma (charan mother )want to file a dv case against from my husband and his relatives and also file a injunction against lender which she given 7 lakh amount to ours.i want to leave my house and want to reside in some other house peacefully with my children.my questions are:
1.if we leave a house we have a right on my house or not this house belongs to my mother in law
2.already we file a 498a on my husband ,from my husband we did not get anything because he have to so much of money to public.
3.tell me which case is suitable to file a case on my brother in law and sister in law.
Asked 8 years ago