I’m fed up with my wife because she’s creating fake problems and troubling issues with my old parents and with me. Really she’s very very bed girl everyday she’s creating issues, my salary is 20 thousand per month but i can’t afford wife expenses because she need every 3,4 days new clothes and every months jewellery, in 20 thousand rupees i pay 10 thousand for my flat rent + electricity bill and food item. She’s don’t do any work in my home and everyday she’s creating problems and fight with me on phone and abuse my parents. Currently she’s living with me but everyday she’s giving threatening to me like sucide, something she’s take knife and saying i cut my hand and tell to police you try to kill me sometimes she take finail bottel, I’m working hotel industry in Gurgaon and my everyday shift like 12 hrs but i give time to here, talk politely but she’s always say i will register fake complaints against you and your family,i will send you jail and beaten your parents. my family live Raebareli u.p and she’s with me in gurgaon but i don’t understand what she wants exactly i need help. My wife parents everyday call me and tel that i kill you and your family. I’m really fed up now, sometimes I think i will sucide but i thik about my parents and i start to crying. In my marriage my family don’t ask or take and dowry (goods item) My parents are to old they can’t walk proper. my mom dad are asthma and diabetes patients. In my 11 Month old marriage I lost my 3 jobs because of her. Pick this Case
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1) record her constant threats to commit suicide
2) record her verbal abuses
3) file police complaint against wife constant threats to commit suicide
4) file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
5) wife constant threats to commit suicide amounts to mental cruelty
6) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty
7) in case wife files false case of dowry harassment apply for and obtain bail
Firstly you keep behaving as you are and try to record the activities of your wife secretly. manage it anyhow. when you feel enough evidence has been collected by you then engage a lawyer there and file a petition for divorce in family court after one year of marriage. Because you have to prove mental cruelty which means such mental pain and suffering as would make it impossible for one to live with the other. Your case is somehow similar to the facts of the case - Dastane VS Dastane, 1975 SC 1534, wherein the wife used to threaten her husband to commit suicide, humiliated husband and profusely abused his parents day and night. So this is called mental cruelty but you have to prove these things by proof you collect.
You may please collect evidences for all these cruelties that have been inflicted by her and then may file a divorce on the ground of divorce.
Also, if you thing that you an talk to her and settle for mutual consent divorce then that is also a ay out.
The divorce will only be filed after 1 year of marriage.
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You need to file divorce petition on the ground of mental cruelty against your wife.
Leave her if you wish to live rest of your life peaceably.
Immediately lodge complaint of abuses and criminal intimidation against your in laws.
Since this marriage apparently fails ask her for mutual divorce. If she doesn't agree then file contested suit for divorce.
Don't live a life of this nature. Be a man, rise and protest their actions.
Nothing will happen to your parents.
Respected sir....
If she is creating such problem you can file a divorce petition under section 13-A of HMA and mention her cruelty which is she doing to you and your parents ..Sir these type of women are such of nature that they can implicate you in false cases and that will create problem for you as will as your parents ...Sir you must have to file divorce petition prior to her filling that will help you as a defence because she will surelly file fake cases on you ....Go ahead mention all steps in petition and file it ...God will help you court will give descion in your favour ...
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As per your description, you can file a sec.9 RCR to force her legally to act like a wife and behave decent with .
Still the things do not workout then you would have left with only one option of filing a divorce petition under section 13(1) HMA for the separation.
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Your wife needs counselling.
You have been subjected to mental cruelty at the hands of your wife.
This is sufficient ground to obtain a divorce.
File a divorce petition under section 13(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act.
If the tortures are beyond tolerance you may contemplate to file a judicial separation case which does not means divorce but you can live separately away from her legally.
You can also file a NCR with the local police about her suicidal tendency and other activities which pose threat to your routine and peaceful life.
You can lodge a complaint against her parents for threatening to kill you.
You may have to wait for one year completion after your marriage if you plan to file a divorce suit against her on the grounds of cruelty.
