1) it appears that your marriage has irretrievably broken down . there is no future in your relationship .
2) file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty . if wife constantly abuses husband it amounts to mental cruelty
3) you can use sms wherein your wife has abused you and also audio recordings of your conversation with your wife .
4) if wife files 498A police will issue you notice to record your statement . if police are satisfied regarding allegations made by wife it will submit report to magistrate regarding offence committed by you .
5) you can apply for AB before session court on FIR being registered .
6) contest DV/498A cases if any filed by wife on merits