• Wife’s parents gives mental torture and makes my wife to act bad

I got married in 2015 . My wife is good with me. Whenever she goes to her home and come back she used to be in demanding manner in my home. If we start advising her she conveys to her mother wrongly and her mother comes to my home and interfere in our family umwantedly. It happen multiple times. In 2016 August 11th we gave birth to girl child. As I am working in other city I could not come down to delivery and told my parents to take care for any support as first deliver my in-laws are taking care. After delivery 4 days I went down to hospital and been with my wife for 2 days . I told my wife and in-laws parents that I can’t be with them as I need to go and take my grand mother as she give more advice on taking care child and I told I can’t be there for discharge . After once I took my grand mother and came home, a lady police SI and ate/ Constance to my home and they told compliant was filed on me and entire family and they told to come to lady police station for enquirer. Their compliant was that I didn’t present during delivery and discharge and we asked 200kg gold and home as dowry. SI lady police was not in position to hear our side fact and she just threatened to go to my wife’s home and see the child. ‘My parents refused to come in. But I went in and saw my wife and told her to come down as parents want to see the child. Mean while my mother in law locked all doors and she started beating me in front of father in law and her mother. Then I shouted and called my father and we came out. I went out back to lady police station to compliant. But they are not ready to believe and they ignored us. Later we went back to our work and after 3 months my wife along with child came to the city where I work . Till now I leave with her . But her parents advice to her that to bend your husband and husbands family. We need husband family to fall at our feet and we gave enough couching to you please do it. They are saying u don’t live with your husband and take child and come back and let ur husband family come to our home gate for begging child and wait for you. My father in law asks my wife not to live with me and to come out. Even after all problems my family just by seeing my girl child they kept quiet and they forgot all the issues. But my wife and in laws attitude towards life are not healthy. My wife acts to me very well, whenever she completes phone conversation with her parents. I just took thier conversation what Crüel they talk with me for future problems if any. I want to warn and send legal advice to my father in law and mother in law not to advice bad/negative to my wife and for doing false compliant on me and my family and for providing mental torture to my family.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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6 Answers

1) send an email to your in laws narrating entire chain of events as mentioned by you and request them not to intervene in your family life

2) mention constant interference by them is ruining your family life

3) you can also send them messages to that effect if they don't have email Id

4) you can also fileNC with local police station regarding torture faced by you from your in laws

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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7812 Consultations

1. No legak notice can stop them form insitigating their daugfhter againt you.

2.Make your wife understand the value of a happy marriage. Once she understands this thing then only all problem would be solved.

3.You have to live life with your wife only and not with your in laws.So keeping happy of your wife is more important then thinking about your in laws.

4.if your wife does not pay any hed to her parents then nothing can touch your life.

5.So convince your wife about the negative aspect of their parents advice and ask her to not to talk much about her marital life.Take her holiday trips frequently.This helps.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
23201 Answers
511 Consultations

It is your complaint that your wife has been doing all cruel acts at the instigation of her parents. So the only remedy that you may adopt at this juncture is to file a suit for permanent injunction against your parents-in-law to restrain them from interfering in your marital life. Other than this there is nothing that can be done at this stage.

Ashish Davessar
Advocate, Jaipur
30763 Answers
972 Consultations

-Send a legal notice to your in-laws asking them to forthwith restrain from inter-meddling with your family life by way of instigating your wife to commit a wrong with you. Also, if they have harmed your reputation and continue to do so, ask them to refrain from doing this again in future.

-Threaten them with dire consequences under civil and criminal legal systems.

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9659 Answers
307 Consultations

If your wife is not living with you then you can issue a legal notice to her instructing her to return to the matrimonial fold or else you would initiate further legal steps on this.

In the same notice you can warn your parents in laws to refrain from indulging in such illegal activities agaisnt you by giving evil advise and poisoning the mind of your wife causing a permanent separation and breaking the marriage irretrievably.

This legal notice may invoke some response, if it do not, then you may proceed with your proposed further legal action.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
87030 Answers
2337 Consultations

Hello,

There is nothing concrete that can be done at this stage, to an extent sending a legal notice might help you that too in way they get some fear in their mind. Apart from this filing a suit for permanent injunction will also be of no help and you will end up wasting your time and money.

It ill be good if both the families try and settle the things mutually, make your wife understand things in presence of elderly members of the family.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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377 Consultations

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