• Harassment by mother in law and husbad

Dear Sir/Madam,
 Iam 32 yr old,( F) married to 47yr old via matrimonial in 18 oct 2013. I have one Boy kid 3yrs now. I came to know about my hubby first marriage just before 1 day to my wedding.He always lied in his details including his date of birth and job. by the time i could not step back for marriage due we were in relation.When i spoke to his mother via phone Just 1 day before to wed to know why she is not attending her Elder Son's first wedding.Then She told me my son already got married 10 ago his first wife left him 8 years back no kids,And left him for ever.And they were not divorced.
I have taken a bold decision even it's hard for me to accept him as a life partner.it is for my own reasons.
After my marriage immediately he forced me to take transfer and settle in his place.I took transfer in 2014 Mar from Hyderabad.and I was pregnant medically in 2014 May thru IUI .
The moment I became pregnant my mom in law and my hubby both started their natural weird attitude and behavior immediately.
Arguments lengthy for no reasons/topics not even related to me dumping on my head
My hubby earlier worked as a pilot in Indigo 2005 that job training expenses and all spared by his first wife and he left the job for silly reasons in 2008 And he was badly addicted watching porn online,chatting,getting touch with females asking for their private pics where i came to know after taking transfer to trivandrum we had around 8 months my pregnancy time taken behind these issues regularly even his mother also aware by me but i never seen she warns nor scolds him. I took risky steps and spoke to the matrimonial management and those females in his phone chat list and told them the scary part of his behaviour.
When they started calling him back and warning him he kept quiet for many days.
After my maternity leave it became very worst my mom in law and Hubby both started scolds me in badly call girl bad character beggar,ass hole family etc,even about me spreading the same to outsiders including auto drivers electrician too he was behind me to get money or sold my jewel so that he can go US and look for some job .I debut some of my gold and arranged money from my parents he earned money and returned after 2 yrs.Still not working nor looking for job he has a property in prime area which worth CR its a duplex building in G floor his / F floor his sisters name where he runs that for rent.Now his mother says him to leave me and take the kid you can get another female and they were called lawyer Mr. Rajeev in TRV to home for the process.they every day harass me to go somewhere and leave this house and him. I thought of taking home on loan due this issues but i don't want to separate due kid future.his first wife filed divorce but on process advice me what to do they both scold me and my parents for no reason and my parents were not aware about him right from my marriage i kept quite due their medical condition not good.