• Wife rude behaviour

I am a Muslim I married in 2008 I have two son.since married my wife behaviour is very ruide with my family members and also with me always I live in fear and tension but I hope that everything will be normal but it could.in 2013 she filed a case in police against me and my family.in that case honorable judge gave direction that we both live saperatl from family since 2013August she live with me and any other family members of my did not come here and no she went to my house.but all these step her behaviour did not change every 2_3days my house atmosfare tense .what should I do .
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Muslim

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You first decide if you want to continue your relationship with her or you want to end this relationship.

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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visit a family counsellor to resolve your differences

2) if situation does not improve you can divorce your wife as per muslim personal law

3) issue her arbitration / reconciliation notice fixing date and time for arbitration in presence of quazi and elders

4) if arbitration fails divorce her / reasons for divorce should be mentioned

5) pay her meher amount and maintenance during iddat period

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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1) i have already advised you to visit family counsellor with wife to resolve your differences

2) divorce wife as per muslim personal law if situation does not improve

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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Hello,

You can give a divorce to her if you want to end this relationship and keep the custody of the child, in any view of the matter try and solve the matter between the elderly members of your family before taking any decision on the same.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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you can contact a local lawyer

2) he would draft arbitration / reconciliation notice

3) if reconciliation fails he would draft first divorce notice

4) mention the reasons why you want divorce

5) followed by second and third divorce notice dissolving the marriage

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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Hi, if you are not able to live with her then you have no options you can divorce her through "TALAQ".

2. Once you pronounce the TALAQ, same has to be communicated to your wife, before the witness.

Pradeep Bharathipura
Advocate, Bangalore
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In that case honorable judge gave direction that we both live saperatl from family since 2013August she live with me and any other family members of my did not come here and no she went to my house.but all these step her behaviour did not change every 2_3days my house atmosfare tense .what should I do .

If there is no indication that she is not cooperating in the married life nor she is interested in the married life anymore, or if you are not able to tolerate these tortures anymore, you may plan to give her divorce by triple talaq system.

Instead of living with a dead marriage you may decide about quitting the married life.

You can consult a Qazi in the local mosque and proceed with the legal formalities in this regard.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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Because of my house atmosfare from my wife I and my child are affecting badliy what should I do for me and my children and all of my family.

You can plan to give her divorce and take the child under your custody.

You cannot be a sentimental fool for ever i.e., sacrificing your personal life due to her arrogance.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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