• My wife torturing me a lot

Sir, my marriage date 25.11.2005 after 3 days of the marriage till now am not happy with my wife.... she always doubt if i spoke with my own sister and mother, grand mother, causins also.......she doubting on me from past 2011 we are living in separate home every night upto 3or 5 am she always screaming...... and torchering harrassing I have 8 years girl child........ but my child loves me alot but my wife never love me she'z sleeping in the day but she never sleep in the night and she wants luxury life........ we are middle class family she never come out with me there also she will doubt every day she asks me today whom with u slept and come????? have u been to ur moms home???? have u met your dad / grandma / brother??? if i said no she never agree for my words that she will prove that have been to my home........... and she scream for her question and answer what she'z judge that is right for her............ i don't know what to do she'z ready to leave me or divorce but her parents not permit her to leave me or divorce....... in case if she divorce me her parents never kept her in their home.......... they are not allowed to divorce me.......... am getting really confusion of my wife pls suggest me what to do???? shall I divorce her / not to divorce. pls suggest me am eagering for your good suggession
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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Dear Concerned,

You need not to Kill your Self Day in and Day out which you have been doing since last 12 years ---- Be bold go ahead and divorce this woman who has made your life miserable. BUT be sure that as your daughter is 8 years there are higher chances that you may not get the custody of your daughter. However if your parents come and starts staying with you - chances of custody are higher.

Divorce her and stay happy .....

Best of luck

Atulay Nehra
Advocate, Noida
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58 Consultations

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1. It is really unusual that after 12 years of marriage the question of non compatibility or divorce is coming up.

2. Anyway go for a holiday trip and spend time both of you together all alone.Only love and affection needs to be restored and once that is back all problem will go.

3.Try to stay separate from the influence of her parents and your parents.I think mutual understanding has gone and once it is restored everything would be fine.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
22824 Answers
488 Consultations

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file for divorce on greounds of mental cruelty

2) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty

3) wife accusing husband of haviong extra marital affairs amounts to mental cruelty

4) wife forcing husband to stay away from his parents amounts to mental cruelty

5) mutual consent divorce is best option

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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7535 Consultations

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As you are facing this issue many years, I suggest you to go for divorce. Even if this issue settled among family members but still the problem would again continue after few days. You may approach a lawyer to file divorce case with jurisdictional family court.

Thanks,

Adv.Niranjan,

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Niranjan
Advocate, Bangalore
844 Answers
9 Consultations

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Its been more than a decade that you have been suffering mental tortures in the hands of your ever suspecting wife.

There is a limit or endurance level for everything.

If you feel that it will not be possible anymore to tolerate her tortures and cruelties, you may decide to quit the married life.

You may apply for divorce on the grounds of cruelty.

Dont worry about her parents, they are not the sufferers

Consult a local advocate and proceed with a divorce case to get permanent relief from her.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2196 Consultations

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