To file RCR or to file divorce
I got married to my wife in Feb 2015. We used to be colleagues in the same office. I took a rented home in front of her house, I lived there till October 2015. We both left job just before 10 days of marriage. I got a job in another company in sept 2015. She joined back the previous company in Nov 2015. During our stay in Gurgaon after marriage from Feb 2015 to October 2015, she never visited any of our relatives by continuously making excuses about her health and when asked for report or new checkup at hospital, made excuses as well. Her parents quarreled with me one day in October 2015 at my rented house and since then she has been staying at her parents house. I left that rented house in Nov 2015 and went to my relatives place near Faridabad and was not in contact with her from Oct 2015 to march 2016. I came to my hometown in Rajasthan in March 2016 ending and she too came after few days
Since then she kept coming for 2-3 days without informing anyone to my hometown every month on festive occasions only and when asked she kept mum. We treated her nicely Everytime . Her last visit was on 10th Jan 2017. During her last few visits, I have asked her to bring her parents to solve things and take some decision. But there was no response. Now, they have filed domestic violence case against me and my family. Also CAW proceedings are going on and I have been regular there while she didn't come in first three visits. She has demanded 15 k maintenance along with 5 k rent accommodation and also 10 lac compensation for injuries/ damages that never happened. They have also included streedhan list which was actually given by us and are still with her since the very start of the marriage.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
She joined the same company and once told me that she has not opted for ePF and I doubt (almost sure) she must had done some kind of setting in the office so as to not show her as an employee or disclose her salary. I also contacted the accounts person but they denied any kind of help in this matter but I have the recording of the conversation of accounts person. He told me that she left the job in Nov 2016 so my question is will she get the maintenance if I am unable to get any proof of her job. Her salary was more than mine when we used to work together and was also getting good salary when she joined back. I am currently unemployed since Nov 2015 when above circumstances happened as my family is in fear and want me to stay with them. Though I have offers of jobs but in other major cities than my hometown. She has filed 498A but complaint is under investigation. During her frequent visits to my hometown and after returning to her home, she must had created evidences to prove domestic violence. What to do in such circumstances. As her elder sister is also at home and her cases are already going on since 5 years, these people are used to this and know what to do when. I feel stuck in a huge mess.
Asked 8 years ago