1) firrst of all, would want to highlight that only filing can happen in SC for transfer petition before 6.01.2017 due to holidays currently. Notice if any may then me issued after 6.01.2017. Also, in th first date at MP if I do not go and there is no lawyer to represent me, will it not be ex-party.
If you dont attend the court on the date of hearing or you are not represented by an advocate then the court may call you absent and set you exparte.
2) Also, I hv th DV complaint copy which has dowri contradictions but do not have MP FIR copy which also has dowri related things. Its with IO gurgaon who has just showed me to read. but I think he will not give me as matter is under investigation thn how can I submit in SC.
If you keen on producing the copies to supreme court, you may have to obtain certified copy of the fIR from police station or court where this FIR has been submitted.
3)Also IO gurgaon is saying if she does nt come after 3 notice we will put FR and close th matter without sumbitting chalan. now in tht case, after FR, can she file another fresh FIR in MP and will it be maintanable keeping in mind she filed an FIR which was made zero FIR and transferred to gurgaon. How should IO close the case so tht any FIR filed aftrr tht by her is not maintanable.
The police will follow the procedures meant for it on the basis of the prevailing circumstances, dont break your head on it, you can challenge the same when you are confronted.
4) Also whats the suggestion to file divorce as of now or its is not th right time and do it later
If you consider that the married ,life cannot be continued under this situation, you may file divorce case now also, there is no bar on it.