1. He cannot take you home without your consent. The maximum he can do is to contest the divorce petition as and when you file it.
2. It is not clear from your query as to who is the owner of the house. If he is the owner of the house then he is at liberty to sell it, but you can file a case under section 12 of DV Act to seek injunction against him on the ground that sale by him will defeat your right to residence.