I married 6 months back My wife is from very poor family & I from middle class family After marriage my wife started demanding ac , shopping from malls , foreign tour When i tried to explain these things are not in our budget she said u people r not modern. She has salary Rs12,000/- per month & i have 18,000/- per month From her salary she says i have to repay the loans taken before marriage which she told one by one & amounted to nearly 1.5 lac she says we should enjoy life by going around & shopping when i tried to tell her that we have to run house She went to her parents house 2 months back & has not returned When i tried to bring her back she says u o not have money for me I have not taken single penny from her salary still after 6 months she is under loan She says u people are not modern ,u do not know how to enjoy life I do not believe in spending by taking loans When we tried to contact her parents ,he refused to talk Actually her father doesn't work & brother is into drugs They depend on her salary We tried to sort out the problem through elders bt her father says i won't talk how can u take decision abt my daughter when i do not want talk We tried to sort out the problem through their land lord as well as through councilor of our area bt her father refuses to come anywhere He says we are happy at our home i do not want to do anything after wait of 2 months & efforts now i want to file the case should i go to women cell or family court What will be the procedure
You can file for divorce only on expiry of one yeR of marriage
2) only in exceptional circumstances can you file for divorce before export of one year of marriage
3) if you want your wife you can file for restitution of conjugal rights
4) but even if you obtain decree of RCR you cannot force wife to stay with you
Our marriage was a simple marriage with no dowry .They arranged lunch & snacks in a simple hall They gave a few clothes to their daughter only ,no clothes or anything to our family members We even asked for simple marriage without guests but they refused by saying their daughter wants to invite her friends & wants to dress up . How much do you think can they demand What happens if we refuse to pay as we are the harrased party We tried everything to sort out refusal was theirs moreover if they could'nt do without their daughters salary why they married her & spoiled my life
Your wife is working and not entitled to any maintenance
2) you should not bow down to blackmail tactics
3) wife may file false case of 498A and of dowry harassment
4) contest case on merits
1.Your marriage is only 6 months old, so you may persuade your wife to visit a marriage counsellor to iron out your differences. If this proves an exercise in futility then you may file for divorce after your marriage is a year old.
2. She can claim maintenance from you, which may be 1/3rd of your net salary
She may also file dowry harassment complaints against you, in which event you should apply for and obtain anticipayory bail and then contest the case on merits
Since your marriage is hardly six months old, you cannot initiate divorce process.
You have to wait for at least one year from the date of marriage for filing any case against her.
The mahila cell cannot help you in this regard, they will support a destitute woman only and not a man.
You wait for one year to complete and see if she is not returning then you can approach family court for divorce.
How much do you think can they demand What happens if we refuse to pay as we are the harrased party We tried everything to sort out refusal was theirs
moreover if they could'nt do without their daughters salary why they married her & spoiled my life
They have not made any decision that way which is bothering you now.
Dont worry about a non-existent thing.
If at all she has any demand she has to aproach curt and has to prove her claim with evidences.
That will take long time and the circumstances will be changed then.
Hence you may wait patiently for the development.