1. He is at liberty to bequeath all his self acquired or separate properties to his son to the absolute exclusion of his daughter and also other heirs. The owner of the property has an indefeasible and unquestionable right to discriminate between his heirs at the time of making a settlement of his properties. Your wife has no right in the properties of which her father is the owner.
2. If the properties bequeathed to a person who is mentally unsound are being misused then any of his relatives or friends can file a suit for injunction in the civil court to prevent such misuse and also for appointment of a guardian of the properties.