Calling off marriage after engagement
I am an NRI (currently living in USA) , and my marriage is cancelled bcoz girl dont want to marry. girls father is forcing marriage. If I dont get married he says we should pay him 30Lacks or he will file a case of women defamation and that i mentally tortured her daughter. (may be IPC 420 not sure)
here is full story:
I got engaged in March 2016, we all were happy for engagement.
After I came back to US, Marriage date was finalized to mid July.
Till now all were going good. Later girl told me she is not happy with marriage.
I tried to find out reasons many times she game me different reason each time. I loved that girl and wanted same back from her. I sent her few gifts too.
one fine day, she drank a wine and reveled me she used to like a guy and she wants to meet that guy and more. I was sad to know that but I did not wanted to cancel marriage because social issues my family might have to face.
On one fine day, girl called me and said she is not willing to marry me and she is not happy.
I told this situation to my parents and they discussed with girls parents. Girls parents donot agree that their daughter would cancel marriage or get drunk or ave affair with other guy.
On their demand, I went back to india for couple of weeks. few relatives from girl side (except her father) came to our home and i showed them proof (chat history) what girl said to me. (we dont have any written/audio proof that she wanted to cancel marriage, but we have proof of drinking, taking about her lover)
Girl also told their relatives that she don't want to marry, if married she may commit suicide. so her relatives cancelled marriage and we decided to exchange all gifts/rings which were given. Next day we exchanged gifts, and relatives promised all settled and we do not hold any grudge.
NOW, girls father started threatening US. he says we should pay him 30 lacks rupees or he will file a case (obviously false case). He wants marriage to happen (even though girl dont want it, he might have convinced her forcefully).
Here is my question:
1. If he files case, what might be charges (our attorney says IPC 420, and 406)
2. Can he file case of IPC 498 "marriage cancellation coz of dowry"?
3. If they file a case Do i have to travel back to india? currently I am in middle of filing visa extension, I dont want to travel back to India.
4. what precautionary measures can be taken so that they cannot file a case or if they how we can easily turn it down?
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu