Harassed by wife, how can I be free from this?
I am a blind person, got maried in Jan 2016. My wife is also having 50% disability. After the one month of my marriage, she starting harase me and my mother saying no one including my mother and married sisters should even enter in this house. I asked the reason and she says these people may interrupt in our privacy but I don't agree to this laugic. the house is in my mother name and I cannot leave her and cannot live without her. Secondly my sisters are married but they some time require to come here at our home to take care of us and my mother. some time my wife locks the room and goes to office due to this I and my mother do not get the access to go inside the room for our work. She was agree for a mutual divorce and she also approached a lawyer for the same and I have this E-mail with me on which she asked a lawyer for mutual divorce. Some time back she unnecessarily raised a fals complain to her parents and she returned back to her parents house saying that she does not want to live with me and she will now not come. But after a few days, she starting saying that now she wants to live with me but I am afraid, she can behave same in the future with me as she had disturbed me a lot after one month of marriage. She also demands a servant and says that I cannot take the responsibility at home for everything. she also warns me that she will leave her job and I have to bear all the expensis. Whenever I ask her to perform some household activity, she says that because I am a girl, it does not mean that I do everything at home. My old mother is also not taken care and helped by her. she also says that if you are a blind person, I am also 50% disabled. She also defaming my family and me by calling here and there within her cercle and by this way, she is disclosing all our private matters. Currently she is living at her parents and willing to come to my house and she is asking me to go to her house to bring her here at my home back but she went on her own.
Some time she and her mother say that we have not given them enough gifts and money in the marriage. I am surprised to know here even girls are asking for money and things, is this not a kind of doury?
pls advice me how can I divorce her and do I need to give her expansis? if yes, for how long and how much, is there any ground on which she cannot clame any expense?
Also I would like to know because our law is pro woman, so on any situation, only woman gets favour from law or mens also get some releif if they are right.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
My wife is also working but she is in private sector and I am in government sector. My salary is around 35 K per month and her salary is around 20 K per month. what may happen if she leaves her job intentionally during divorce? She is having around 50% disability but she is having certificate of 100% disability. Does this not prove her fake nature or habits in front of law? She is still at her parents house, how safe I am this time when she is not here since more than a month time. Should we already lauge a complain and talk to women cells people in behalf of my mother? I doubt if she comes at my home again, she can create problem for us. she does not want anyone to come our house but I cannot live like this as human is also a social animal. due to her atitute, my social life and family life may be spoiled. I am in peace this time and how can I avoid her to come back to the home now.
Asked 8 years ago