Divorce, domestic violence
Hello Lawyer, My husband and I got separated 3 and a half years back. After a few weeks we got separated he moved from IT job to court staff, which is just below the district judge. There were lots of things for which we separated, the main thing that led to separation is one night he hit me on my head twice and i thought im dead.. My son was 4 months then. He too did that without thinking what would happen to me..He sometimes acts like a psyco and stands at the decision he took. He never has a habit of sharing things or discussing/planning. He never treated me as a human being from day one of my marriage. No personal space for me. he took full control of me, that he never left my salary or my jewels or my parents given household things with me.. He and his parents took all my jewels, my salary and everything. He always doubts people, he will presume things like your fathers does like this, your mother does like this and so on. Though it was practically not. He was also demanding dowry after marriage. After I got separated, I filed a police complaint for hitting me and for demanding dowry. But he escaped from police saying he wanted to live with me and filed a case in court. Then later on, I filed a case for maintanence case as I was not working that time and I had to take care of my kid. Its been 3 years now and he filed some petitions to get it delayed. I also filed a domestic violence case at him and he filed some petition for that in high court and stayed it. As he cheated police saying that he wanted to live with me, he was threatening me through other means that i need to get divorce from my end. Then the case he filed for re-union got dismissed due to his misbehaviour in the court hall once infront of the district judge. He talked words that should not be spoken. Then I got court direction for the police case and the criminal case is still pending. As he is working in court, he influences the judges and the court staff and get it done in different way. Though its goiing to be 4 years I couldnt get my jewels or salary or my things. He then filed a divorce case and got divorce without my knowledge or consent during a trail. The judge ordered for divorce when a cross trial was happening to him. He also had filed a case for guardian of my child and the judge gave orders for monthly visitation. I am worried that he doesnt have decency or what to speak or what not to speak to my child and how could this be feasible to show my child to him. Moreover he wont be stable at all, coz he dont like anyone in my family. If he sees me he will go mad and speak bad words, At this stage how could I co-operate with child visitation, when father is cruel or mad?. He has never got a single stuff for my child after he is born and before the separation. As he is a court staff, is there a way to take action on him as he is still influencing the judges, for keeping hold on the domestic violence case and criminal case. Is there a quick and straight way to give complaint against him.Is there a way to fasten the domestic violence case and criminal case? How could a judge pass orders for divorce when domestic violence case is still going? THere is proof for my jewels and properties that is with him. I am damn sure he doesnt have interest in living with me, please help me on the ways to resolve this.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Christian
Thanks for your responses.
Its been 4 years since, the case is also still going on and I havent received a single paisa for me or my child as maintanence or interim alimoney. He himself has written in police station that he holds my jewels and this has been recorded in court. I would like to know how long would the case go? Each time when I file a petition, he blocks it with no reason in high court. I believe he thinks as he is working in court, he can continue with the cases and somehow delay my money or jewels. I wonder when all these happened just a two weeks before he joined as a court staff, would court have any way of taking action or asking him to return my property. (I have proof for all). Is there any source of complaining a court clerical staff? If I send a petition to registrar, I had to wait for months for their responses. Please guide me. Thanks again.
Asked 8 years ago