Mental harassment by ex wife
Mental harassment by father in law and ex wife
I am writing to complain for mental harassment by my ex wife and her agent and her father.
We have separated 3 years ago and we have a daughter 5 years old living in Oslo. I am petroleum engineer. My father in law and agent , on behalf of my ex wife, harass me during 3 years by making travel ban for me and asking me for pay 1000 gold coins named “Mahr”: an stupid islamic rules. They know I have not 6 million NOK (1 million dollar) in cash to pay them for this term, we sold out our common apartment and paid 5.5 million loan back to Bank and split 50-50%. Their intention is harassing me and “Smart kidnapping”. While she is following Norwegian rules for 50-50 after divorce, she is seeking for 1000 gold coins in Iran. I could not pay such huge money in cash and her father and agent, on behalf of her, getting travel ban for me.
This travel ban means if I travel to our country to visit my sick mother who has cancer, I could not exit country and not able to come back to Norway. As my father in law and my ex wife threatened me, I will loss my daughter visiting forever, I will lose my job in Norway and I will lose my residency in Norway since I could not renew my residency card when I will be in Iran and away from Norway for more than continous 6 months.
Their plan is getting child to California while I will be stuck in Iran and loose my daughter forever. There is no agreement between Iran and USA regarding kidnapping.
However Norwegian Police made Travel ban for my daughter from Norway on 2014, my ex wife lifted up after 1 year.
As long as I live in Norway, she could not bring my daughter to Calinfornia without my permission. Since I will not let her to take away my daughter, she made this travel ban and harassed me every single day by her agent.
Norwegian Embassy in Iran knows completely what they are doing against me and might guess what is their actual plan since there are lots of similar cases for kidnapping in this way.
I am scaring to lose my daughter forever; lose my job and residency. I am getting sick by this mental harassment during last 3 years. Please advise me.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Muslim
1000 gold coins is 1 million dollar. They cheated me on marriage time 12 years ago. For 400 gold coins, they got my apartment in Tehran which I bought before marriage and without loan. For second 400 gold coins, they got travel ban and my Iranian lawyer told me I have to pay. but I have not such huge money at all.
She got divorce in Norway easily and bring it to Iran and get divorce there easily. My lawyer told me if I like my ex-wife pay something to judge, they could change result in my direction.
Asked 8 years ago