1. Lawyer keeps on telling that judge has not passed order for AB .. Whats happening actually ?
If you dont trust this lawyer, you may change him/her and engage another person.
2. Case can be transferred to Tamil Nadu ? If bride side requests to change case to Tamil Nadu , will it be transferred ?
It is not a child's game that anything can be done at any point of time at their whims and fancies. The rule is that you have to apply for transfer to your state by a petition before supreme court, which may decide to transfer or not. on merits.
3. Are we supposed to provide evidences? Or do we have rights to ask below evidence ?
->Her bank statement from date of marriage - To prove that she has not transferred any amount to her .
->Her phone calls - To prove that we didn restrict her to talk with her parents.
-> She has done many online shopping , will it become strong evidence to show that she was not tortured by us .
-> We have electricity bill for past 6 months which shows up difference in the months when she was here . Is it enough to prove that they had cooked separated since they used induction stove .
--> My brother has all medical bills of her when she was here and taken care of her medical expenses .
These things can be taken care of during trial.
4. In case , her family comes and talks with us, how do we handle that ..We are afraid that they may come and make us to talk abt dowry and will try to collect as evidence .Please suggest me to handle this situation legally . Because if they do something and will get some kind of video and may try to cancel our bail .
If you apprehend foul play, dont entertain them or dont even look at them.
5. If she commits suicide or something for only sake to take revenge after filing case , will it strengthen the case ? We are too afraid since she is too much adamant. once her mother has told that she bet and after winning the bet she made her mother to shave her head .
Dont stretch the issue by your imagination, let she come out with her game plan, you can counter it accordingly.
6. Contacting security agencies/spy to collect evidence is allowed legally ?
NO
7. My brother has strongly decided not to live with her hereafter . But in case , if she says that she wants to live with my brother , how do we handle it ? Based on her attitude and behaviour , she wants my brother as slave and ATM machine and atleast to show up that she is good.
Your brother has to decide about it and not you, dont interfere in their life for your safety and their well being.
8. 498a can be registered only by wife and wife's family not by husband ? Most of the cases , wife side demands money and if husband doesn support , they use dowry as weapon.
What do you want to say by this?
9. Domestic Violence case can be registered only by wife . Not by husband and husband family ?
Your understanding is right, read the provisions of law for confirmation.
10 . Is there a section to file case on her uncle since he used his profession as weapon to make police to file the case ?
If he has directly attacked you, you can bok him under assault case. He cannot be booked for his indirect involvement.