Please help me regarding reunion or divorce
I was separated for almost 4 yrs. (married in 12 Dec 2010) .We got family disputes because of my father- in-law at the time of my marriage reception .From that time both the families are not in touch with each other. My wife stayed with me for 3 months (along with parents) and all the time she use to hate my family for the only reason, which happened during my reception. She torched us and she wanted to separate me from my family and she expects me to take care of her Father as her mom passed away long back early in 2006. I was ready to give my support them. But I am not ready to leave my own family for the sake of others. Also this was not the demand from them at the time of marriage .I am the eldest son who have many commitment towards my family .She even made a drama of committing suicide drinking Lysol (bathroom cleaner) .So we decided to live separate in the same house in separate portion .From that time even my parents stopped speaking with her to avoid further misunderstandings .This made me clear that she totally avoided my family ,but still she expects me to have good relationship with my in-laws ,which I did for first 3 for my wife sake even though I don’t like . After all this happened I totally stopped interacting with my in-laws and even said them directly I won’t step into your house. My wife went to attend function to her father house and she didn’t return back till 7th month. She even didn’t come to my sister’s marriage during that time. Since I know about their attitude, I left as it is. Later in 7the month, just because they required rituals at the time of Pregnancy, she contacted me to join with me and with no other way agreed .But still they expected me to come over their house and take my wife for which I denied and then she came with some of their relative to my house. Even that time my wife made trouble to my parents. We even accepted her because she was pregnant at that time .2 days later they started about ceremonies (The real reason why she came to my home) .I didn’t accept and don’t what to make any ceremonies function, since me and my relatives are upset because she didn’t attend my sister’s marriage which was more important to us . Within 10 days she left my home for delivery and from that time I have taken care of all her delivery needs .I was blessed with baby boy. It was the day before discharge, my in-law s and wife made trouble at hospitals. They discharged then without my knowledge and took her to their home. That was the last time I saw wife and baby .Still now my wife is taking revenge .I almost waited for more than 4yrs, still she is playing with my sentiments and dignity .Please help me.Honestly, I don’t want to divorce her because of my baby. But she has ruined my life .She made cruelty for me .Currently I am in US in long term assignment, I need some solution. Is it possible for me to get divorce while staying in US? I have contacted maytime before and after coming to USA.She is behaving like psycho .She created all the issues and blaming me now. Only 2 options are for me.She may come back only if I go for divorce or if not it up to court to decide my life. I am 34 yrs old now please help me.Stil I didn’t start my life
Please Note: I didn’t get a single rupee as dowry. I am against to it
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
I want to bring this to your attention .In 2013 i applied for Restitution of Conjugal Rights in Hindu Marriage Act. Initially my lawyer said summon reached my wife, but later I got to know none of summon reached her. Mean time I got opportunity to go to South America .So my petition got expired or rejected. My lawyer said we can apply divorce .Since he is not trustworthy, I didn’t seek him for divorce and also believed that everything will be ok. Everyone knows that I didn’t get dowry and also I didn’t demand for that. I don’t think they will file 498A/ DV. Definitely they can’t file case against me but if they do that it will become against them. I have enough proof against them .Since my problem occurred in front of all me and my wife relatives.
Asked 8 years ago
Sir,
No use of talking to her for mutual contested divorce .Recently i called her during Flood in Chennai to know her safety .She abused me and ask who are you
is it possible for me to apply divorce in India with out my presence in India (I am working in US)? .
Asked 8 years ago