1. For filing a divorce case under mutual consent divorce under the provisions of Indian divorce act, the period of separation is two years, hence the divorce petition under section 10A of the act may not be entertained because you got married only in the last year. However Kerala High Court has ruled that the requirement of one year of separation or more before filing a divorce petition by mutual consent under the Divorce Act is unconstitutional, citing violations of fundamental rights and struck it down.
2. She can file the divorce case and you need to be physically present or your power agent can sign the papers on your behalf..
3. If you are not willing for divorce you can refuse the proposal for mutual consent divorce.
4. It depends on what they propose to do or the action taken by them