Dear All, I am an Indian Citizen, Muslim (by profession Neuroscientist), residing in Germany. My would-be Husband is a Pakistani National, Muslim (by profession Software developer/engineer), residing also in Germany. Problem: The boy´s brother works in Pakistan defence (atomic energy), and he is sceptical that this marriage is gonna impact his job/living. We had asked him to talk to his Organisation regarding this issue but he does not want his impression is they will become paranoid and end up increasing more surveillance on him/his family. He is so scared that he will lose his job. So, he does not want to pursue the idea of merely asking. Closure: We want to traditional Wedding (with all the rituals)- Both in India and Pakistan. None of us wants to stay forever in Indian/Pakistan after the wedding. Just the normal visits. Question: Are there any websites where we can talk to the authorities (on behalf of his brother) since he does not want to make move? Secondly, If nobody can answer the first question. What would be the suggestion to pursue this? Thanks for answering this in advance. :) PS: Also thanks to those who had already suggested me few things. But I would love to have a broad perspective.
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1) there are no websites where you can talk to the authorities
2) only in case is brother discriminated against in service can he approach court for necessary reliefs
3) brother is not marrying an Indian citizen it should not affect brother service
4) it is only in case wherein brother marries a foreigner would he have to obtain prior permission from the authorities
The brother is working in a very sensitive and strategic organisation and your marriage is going to have a huge impact upon his personal and professional life given the current state of relations between the two countries.
The authorities cannot be contacted in such cases. They move with a single track mind. Brother of a defence personnel marrying an Indian will not be taken in a very good way although you both living in a foreign country may have some effect.
You should marry him in India and Pakistan as planned.
If the authorities don't need to know they shouldn't be informed. Keep it a small affair.
Dear Client,
There is no clause in Indian Law that forbids an Indian citizen from marrying a Pakistani national. And it will not affect his professional life.
Thank You
You cannot talk to any authorities through any website, as a matter of fact you may not even able to seek their suggestion/advice or opinion to your proposed queries.
If you contact any authority either in India or in Pakistan, it will be as good as inviting troubles for your proposed marriage itself.
You may proceed with the proposed marriage and their celebrations without revealing the details of his brother's employment or any other issue that may cause you any kind of damage or put a break to this proposal.
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