1. You can ask your advocate about the status of the case as well as working status of the family court, this is a local issue.
2. Your wife cannot withdraw the 498A case even if she is willing to.
The court has to conduct the trial, she has to turn hostile and then the court will acquit you after examining all other witnesses to complete the formality.
Otherwise you may have to file a quash petition before high court to quash the charge sheet in which your wife has to file an affidavit expressing no objection to this quash petition after which the high court will quash the charge sheet, then you can file a discharge petition before trial court and get discharged from the case.
She can withdraw the 125 cr.p.c. case at any time.