See you cannot do any thing of her legally she was with you with your choice, you were in adultery and your wife can file divorce on that ground though you cannot file any legal.case against her on any ground in given facts.
A girl cheated me emotionally
Hello Sirs, I'm married and 37 years old. around 4 years back I got impressed with a girl and she invited me to have sex with her though I denied multiple times and she was there with me till date just to roam around and have parties and sex. She also said that she was ready to be like a keep with me, since I was unable to marry. She had all sort of fun and absconded a month ago keeping their parents in front. She seriously played with my emotions. She has such sort of history earlier as well, Just after a month meeting her a I came to know about the, but she begged me to be with her. Now she is behaving like all mistakes are mine and keeping safe like a Pathivratha. Because of her I spoiled my family life and i became bad infront everyone like officially and personally. In short, she was with whenever she wants to be and she left when she had all fund with me and felt like it's enough for her. I'm unable to understand what to do with such girls.
Asked 4 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
30 Answers
Forget her and move on in life
2) don’t file any case against her as she may as counter file false case of rape against you
But she played with me emotionally, what about that? There is no gender equality for men, IPC gives importance to Women emotions only and not men?
Asked 4 years ago
See you were involved with her on your choice you cannot.force her now , in case you force she can file case against you and same can lead you in trouble.
You had consensual sex with her
you are already married and had extra marital affair with the lady
you can file case against her but chances of success are bleak
Thank your luck that she didn't file any case against you and dur this alone you should consider you to be fortunate.
Don't feel bad as because of this you have known her true character and your life has been saved from further damage.
Move on and concentrate in your career.
Ipc has no provision for emotional distress caused by either male or female to either of them. Basically no law provide for this. Law does not deal with this.
if any female is getting legal support for any emotional distress that is totally illegal.
I never asked her for sex, in fact she forced me to have and she did all fun what she can to sleep wit her. I never thought of having sex with her, it was she who forced me to have and she did all sort of fun to have sex with her.
Asked 4 years ago
Dear Sir,
It is not gender equality but men have more knowledge and exposure to the world so such beneficial Acts \ enactments are drafted. But now the women are more educated and would like to take revenge against the men since men all theses years exploited the women day in and day out. Any way now you are in safer zone since because she has not lodged any complaint. Better start your new life forgetting all the past. No emotions in extra affairs. Please turn around see how the women lodging false complaints of rape etc., You may lodge complaint against her if she happens to be leading a life like prostitute or blackmailing you. Use your wisdom and go ahead.
Since you are married you could not have promised her marriage
2)do you have any audio recordings , messages that she forced you to have sex
See we can very well understand your situation and kindly understand you were in it by your choice if you were not you could have withdrawn now there is no law which can support you here though on contrary if you trigger her she may give false complaint and then you have to defend same to get justice.
are u married? what about her marital status? and what is your concern now?
i just noticed you are married,
your enjoyment with the girl falls under the definition of adultery and your wife can claim divorce on the said ground of adultery,
if she is interested in breaking all relations with you, just let her go and you too, move on
You have voluntarily indulged in this extra marital relationship with her.
You have to pay for your habits.
You could have refused to continue the relationship with her in the past when you had that opportunity whereas you, out of your desire to have her, had been continuing with her.
However please remember that you cannot take any legal action agaisnt her for this fraud played on you.
If at all you want to take revenge on her, then on the basis of the evidence you have for having given her any huge money, you can file a money recovery suit provided you are ready to spare your valuable time to run between court, home and yor office, by spending money and energy on this litigation.
You may better ignore her and curtail all your relationship with her forever so that you can save your money, emotions, respect in the society at least henceforth.
You being a married man cannot take any legal action agaisnt her because it is you who have indulged in an adulterous life with her.
Your relationship with her is extra marital, hence no action against her is maintainable, legally.
Whether she forced you or you volunteered to this act, it is an extra marital affair for you.
You should understand the fact that you are not a kid that she forced you to have sex with her but you did not want to, if that was the situation nothing would have prevented you from walking out of her at that time itself.
Your excuses cannot come to your rescue,
It would be better that you ignore her and discard her forever instead of inviting more troubles for you in the name of any legal action to be taken against her as you may intend.
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Dear Sir,
There are various instances and cases where the men are used by some ladies in order to have fun, change in their lives and also to earn/extort money later. You may one of the victims and you are suggested to be safe and clear your stand and even don't hesitate to file the complaint of extortion, blackmailing etc.
- Supreme court declared that , when a man and a woman in love live together , is part of the right to life and not a criminal offence, and further live-in relationships is legal in India.
- Further, the consensual sex is not offence , hence no party can blame to each other for the same.
- And further, if that girl try to black mailing you in the garb of relationship, then her such act would be against the law , and you can lodge a complaint/information with police for your safety against her for extortion under section 384 of IPC, and for threatening to implicate in false cases.
- Otherwise, no case made out against her under the provision of any Laws in Inida.
- Further, if you will take steps against her , then she may try to implicate you in false cases of rape etc.
You cant hold her for cheating for emotional aspects only in case of financial cheating you can file FIR for cheating
Hello,
File a GD against her alleging that she is threatening to file a false case and also extract money from you by blackmailing. And avoid seeing her and refuse all her request.
REGARDS
Going by your emotions and contents of your post. You can take it as, blessing in disguise i.e., you are lucky that she did not file any criminal cases against you.
IPC / Law is equal for all, it will consider and decide on proofs / evidence.
Forget her and move on, do not initiate any proceedings / complaints against her, she may come up with false criminal cases against you, due to which you may be put to hardships.
If you have any chat / recordings of her requests / desires demanding you for such favor, you can use them as proofs against her.
Hi
One question.
When she insisted you that she will be with you as ur keep....and you agreed..... whose mistake is this....yours brother.
You only mentioned that you were never attracted towards her, nor you were interested in sex or anything with her. Then why you continued the relationship.
She enjoyed, you also enjoyed.. so let it go now.
And if you want to take some action.
File a.case of sexual harrassment against her.. . Law is equal for all.... men can also complaint against sexual harassment. Do it.
Dear Sir,
You were in a relationship with a women for 3 years. You had sex with her, both of you enjoyed each other from every perspective. Now she have cheated on you so you are asking legal justice. I got your point. It is true that if you cheated her by sexual promise she had right to complain. You hadn't. But why?
Just ask to yourself what have you losses in this relationship? Society will never ask you about your virginity. So you are just lost some moments and emotional attachments. You will have pain for your memory only. If she would have been cheated she will be treated as used product in this biased society so that the law stands behind her. Any law is not attached with any sentiment. So you can't demand justice for sentiment. Sentiment is not a social issue, just a personal feeling. We everyone feel emotional pain in our life. We can't protect them. When you saw a high-rise building in the plot where you played cricket with your friends in childhood and feel sorry do you go to court to get back that ground? You can forget about that after some day. In this case also you can easily forget that woman. In fact you have to forget her for both of your good.
So, forget her and think about your future. Be mature. To forget her be involved in any creative work that you like. Be happy in life. Take care of you and your family.
1. You cannot take any against that girl in this case because you are wrong in this case as you have illicit relationship with that Girl.
2. Still if you want to take action then you can lodge FIR for cheating and blackmailing against that girl but for that you need proof that she blackmailed you.
3. You should also be prepared for equal and opposite reaction from that girl as she can also lodge FIR against you for sexual harassment or rape If you initiate some legal action against her.
just forget her, dont file any case.
she can file Criminal cases against you.
you cannot file any cases against her.
If in this whole process, she has also cheated you financially, apart from keeping you in an emotional lurch; and you fear that she may repeat this behaviour with others too, report her to the Police. However, I won't think you can get much success. Having said that, you may still try approaching the Police once.
- As per the information mentioned in the present query, makes it clear that you have been cheated emotionally and financially also if we look into the facts that have been elaborated by you in the above query.
- I would like to apprise you that there is nothing wrong for anyone to have sex with some with mutual consent as now adultery as a crime has been abolished by the Hon’ble Supreme Court and can only be the ground of divorce.
- Now, when I come to advice you for any legal action then I would ask you to have complaint filed against her for cheating as she has used you for sex to grab money from you, it was not only mutually but planned.
- There may be no specific offence in IPC, but yes, you can give a try before the MMs court.
Well, you should break all contact with her immediately. Also tell the truth to your family as it may hurt now but will be favourable for you in the long run.
Well, ypu too knew that you will not marry her. She played with you because of that. Just leave her.
It's ok. Just get out of the relationship. And vow never to indulge in an extramarital relationship.