1. See if you are outside India so as such no coercive steps can be taken against you, also.you are not Indian citizens so government cannot impound your passports also. The only way left is extradition that is tedious government procedure to bring you for trial. Further in your case in case the quashing is rejected.you have to face the trial or can challenge the order before SC.

Also if you have any property in India same can be attached as after you are declared PO.

2. Yes the proceedings can be quashed.

3. No it can be quashed from.high court on ground of settlement.

You should come down to India apply for anticipatory bail from sessions court 

2) with court permission you can go abroad 

3) PO proceedings can be cancelled on basis of settlement arrived at 

A) Quashing of 498a case applied in the hight court with the help of both parties. Quashing means opposite party has to withdraw case and FIR. So the other party should be present in the high court. Without her it's impossible.

Option are come to mutual consent divorce and make MoU present on the court.

B) refer above option.

C) No, it's not true. if you have take anticipatory bail of all, then no issue.

Suggestions: If you wish I can become a mediator for you and get settlement done at reasonable cost. Along with preparing MCD and MoU papers from your side.

Now one remedy is available for them which can relieve them from all the harassment and torture and that is quashing of FIR under 482 CrPC. But this remedy is generally very sparingly and rarely exercised by the courts. Generally allegations of cruelty are mentioned in the FIR and based on this FIR is lodged but sometimes police forgets that in the cases of498a general allegationsof cruelty does not stand, the allegation must qualify either of the two parts as envisaged in section 498a.

if a FIR misses material facts then it is a vague FIR which can be quashed by invoking the jurisdiction of 482 CrPC. Image result for 498a quash Some believe that if a FIR satisfies the ingredients of an offence it is not the case for being fit for quashing but this preposition is untrue under the light of the judgement In R.P. Kapur v. State of Punjab (AIR 1960 SC 866) the apex Court summarized some categories of cases where inherent power can, and should be exercised to quash the proceedings. (i) where it manifestly appears that there is a legal bar against the institution or continuance e.g. want of sanction; ii) where the allegations in the first information report or complaint taken at its face value and accepted in their entirety do not constitute the offence alleged; (iii) where the allegations constitute an offence, but there is no legal evidence adduced or the evidence adduced clearly or manifestly fails to prove the charge. so lack of evidence is another ground for quashing proceedings.

Under section 82 cr.p.c.:

Proclamation for person absconding

you have already filed quashing petition in court, you have availed remedies under the law. Now tell your advocate to argue the matter before court.

a proclaimed offender can be arrested by any citizen of the country.  The court also has the authority to confiscate the passport of such PO so that he/she doesn’t flea the country.

According to the Supreme Court, no anticipatory bail can be given to a proclaimed offender This was laid down in an order of the Supreme Court in State of Madhya Pradesh vs.Pradeep Sharma. [ (Crl) Appeal No. 2049 of 2013, Arising out of SLP (Crl) no. 4102 of 2013] However, a proclaimed offender can be granted the benefit of a regular bail.

If quashing is dismissed you can also file SLP in SC. 

Otherwise file discharge in trial court after chargesheet is filed 

Yes you can do that with mutual settlement and quashing of FIR

No it's not true

Your PO can be cancelled on basis of settlement arrived at 

you would not have to go to jail 

It is more of matrimonial dispute so if there is settlement you can file quashing before the high court on ground of consent and all case including the proceedings can be quashed.

The settlement between you and the girl side will not cancel the PO automatically.

You may have to take steps to cancel the same and this settlement may come to your rescue to solve the problem easily or process the cancellation of PO expeditiously.

The complainant should declare that the
case is compromised.
If accused has been declared PO, then 174a will be
framed additionally and even if case is compromised
174a will still exist.

Apply for anticipatory bail. You are American citizen. If you have no property in India, you are safe stayign in US only.

Only by filling withdrawal petition jointly in HC, PO will withdraw on quash of FIR.

Whenever Quash will grant by HC, PO will invalidate.

If you don't appear even after non bailable warrant. Look out notice can be issued against you. You will be arrested at airport. Further more you may not be deported but you will barred to travel to India. It's better you do mutual settlement or contest nthe trial rather ignoring it

1. Yes quashing petition can be dismissed but it is in your favour that arrest is stayed by High court.

2. You can ask mediator to arrange another meeting for negotiations with other party. 

3. If girl family agrees for mutual consent divorce then you can again file quashing petition to cancel FIR against you and your family.

4. Once the FIR is quashed the PO proceedings in that FIR will also become infructuous.

You have filed a quashing petition in the high court. Arrest stay may be allowed but it is very rare that the high court will quash the fir. During the period of trial you have to attend it. If not then non bailable warrant may be issued anytime against you.

Yes if she agrees then the proceedings would be quashed.

You have to post bail if a non bailable warrant has been issued against you.

You have to come to India to take bail and to finish all the cases. Also your property in India may be confiscated by the state if you don't appear.