A) Quashing of 498a case applied in the hight court with the help of both parties. Quashing means opposite party has to withdraw case and FIR. So the other party should be present in the high court. Without her it's impossible.
Option are come to mutual consent divorce and make MoU present on the court.
B) refer above option.
C) No, it's not true. if you have take anticipatory bail of all, then no issue.
Suggestions: If you wish I can become a mediator for you and get settlement done at reasonable cost. Along with preparing MCD and MoU papers from your side.
Now one remedy is available for them which can relieve them from all the harassment and torture and that is quashing of FIR under 482 CrPC. But this remedy is generally very sparingly and rarely exercised by the courts. Generally allegations of cruelty are mentioned in the FIR and based on this FIR is lodged but sometimes police forgets that in the cases of498a general allegationsof cruelty does not stand, the allegation must qualify either of the two parts as envisaged in section 498a.
if a FIR misses material facts then it is a vague FIR which can be quashed by invoking the jurisdiction of 482 CrPC. Image result for 498a quash Some believe that if a FIR satisfies the ingredients of an offence it is not the case for being fit for quashing but this preposition is untrue under the light of the judgement In R.P. Kapur v. State of Punjab (AIR 1960 SC 866) the apex Court summarized some categories of cases where inherent power can, and should be exercised to quash the proceedings. (i) where it manifestly appears that there is a legal bar against the institution or continuance e.g. want of sanction; ii) where the allegations in the first information report or complaint taken at its face value and accepted in their entirety do not constitute the offence alleged; (iii) where the allegations constitute an offence, but there is no legal evidence adduced or the evidence adduced clearly or manifestly fails to prove the charge. so lack of evidence is another ground for quashing proceedings.