• Divorce from wife

I want divorce from my wife 
Because she torcher me always since marriage 
She demand always money money money 
Her parents always harass me and how many times they have expelled me from home,they keep making money and do not pay so much money 
I do everything for those people nd she doesn’t not Want reach with my parents nd she told left parents..
She torcher me alot so I tried some time sucide 
Because i loss my tolerance now
I m worried about my life 
(She told me if she left me 
Then u happy 
So i dont seen it )
She demands me 25 lac ruppee for left 
She goes NGO nd i go there 
All people forced me nd harassed there nd told me u give 20 crore to her
I m in private Job 
How i will manage 
I have no money for surviving 
So how i give 
Sir i have only option if I quit my life or sucide only so please advice me
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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16 Answers

You can file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty 

 

2) wife forcing husband to stay separate from parents amounts to mental cruelty 

 

3) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty 

 

4) no need to commit suicide or bow down to pressure tactics 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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Contact a local lawyer and file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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You can file divorce on ground of cruelty against the wife you can live seperately if for mutual divorce she is claiming unreasonable amount. 

You can file divorce and contest same before the court.

 

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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You can take ground that wife left you and also she is abusing and is cruel.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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Dear Sir,

It is better to file Restitution of conjugal rights against your wife in family court.

If RCR is passed it will help you in proving that you are innocent, she cannot claim maintenance from you
she is deserter in the eyes of laws , she has no right of maintenance in future, husband will be in safer place
RCR will be passed and if she fails to join him within one year ,it a ground for divorce for husband for failure of restitution decree

If she denies to cohabit with you even after the R.C.R. decree is awarded then you can file an suit for execution of such decree under order 21 Rule 32 of the Civil Procedure code and then after a lapse of one year from the date of such R.C.R. decree you can file divorce petition u/s 13 (1-A)(ii) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. If conjugal right is not restored within one year of getting the RCR decree, the aggrieved party is eligible to get divorce.

 

  1. she can file any case as she likes
    this RCR will dilute the seriousness of her cases
    3. if she doesnt join with you as per the court order within one year then that will become the ground for you to apply for the divorce

 

  • You get a leverage in maintenance & alimony, since you are ready to take care of her needs and necessities but she doesn’t want to join you.

 

SEC 9 OF HMA – restitution of conjugal rights. it is a prayer by a  petitioner; summon by a competent court ;  and order by a court to the spouse who left her matrimonial duties without sufficient reason.

 

Attempt to suicide is also an offense if she commits such offense in future then simple hand over her to the police and ask them to book a case. Even now on her threats of black  mailings and your recordings police can book a case. Just threaten her through police.

 

I can completely understand the stress and trauma that you are undergoing. It appears that she is mentally upset over breaking up with you and feels emotionally insecure and vulnerable. At first, you should consider taking her for psychiatric treatment. At the same time, in order to protect yourself and your family I think you should consider filing a complaint with the local police authorities. You should also consider informing the State and the National Commission for Women that you are going through this. This preemptive action may protect you from suffering any harm in the future in case she takes any step.

Netravathi Kalaskar
Advocate, Bengaluru
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Dont give anything only record her demand to live separate from parents. And her and in laws torture than you can file for divorce. 

In such cases, no arrest. So dont worry about police.

Talk her on phone and ask her to come and live with parents. She will deny and possibly threats you of false cases, if money not given to her. Good evidence to prove cruelty and ground of divorce. 

Suicide will not solve anything but an act of coward.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
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Be a men and face it.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
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You can file for contested divorce against her and seek decree from family court

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
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249 Consultations

You do not need to pay your wife anything without any specific orders of the court. chicken keep on asking for any amount but you do not have to pay to her until the court orders so.

You should not contemplate suicide as no person can force you to live together. Not even the courts.

 

Siddharth Jain
Advocate, New Delhi
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102 Consultations

you can file for divorce on grounds of cruelty which is a valid ground for divorce under section 13 of Hindu Marriage Act. Try to collect irrefutable documentary evidence to prove cruelty on her part 

Siddharth Jain
Advocate, New Delhi
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102 Consultations

You can file a contested divorced case on the grounds of cruelty.

You can cite all the events chronologically in the divorce petition as grounds for seeking divorce.

If you have filed the divorce case then you can protect yourself from her false criminal cases also stating that it is an act of taking revenge on you hence she has come out with such false complaints against you.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2505 Consultations

You can very well file a contested divorce case on the grounds of cruelty.

You consult a local advocate and proceed on the advise rendered by the local advocate  in this regard.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2505 Consultations

Collect all evidences about what you have said , Hire a good lawyer and file divorce petition on ground of mental creulty. . 

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
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32 Consultations

contact a local expert family lawyer and file divorce petition. 

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
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1. You should file divorce petition on ground of mental and physical cruelty by your wife.

2. Dont opt for suicide as it is not a solution for any problem.

Mohit Kapoor
Advocate, Rohtak
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7 Consultations

- As per Supreme Court judgment, wife is expected to move in with the relatives of their husbands, follow the rules and customs of their home, and ideally, blend in seamlessly as a new daughter. 

- Further, the court granted divorce to a man on the grounds of “cruelty” after his wife refused to share a home with her in-laws.

- Further, If wife is not supporting her husband for the enjoyment of life and denying relation , then the husband can get divorce after filing a divorce petition before the court on this ground.

- Hence , on the above ground you can file a Divorce case against her due to her continuous cruelty. 

- Further , upon your filing of the divorce case, she will also file cases against you and your family members. 

- Further, if her behavior with your parents is not favorable , then they can also file cases under the provision of Domestic Violence Act.

- You should lodge a complaint against her cruelty before the police as well, after mentioning all the details , and also for threatening for dowry cases.

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
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